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Ron_00

51 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm looking to meet interesting people, for conversation and maybe some friendly cuddling (not necessarily on the first date, that's up to you). Beyond that, everything is negotiable.

I have a lot of curiosity, and I'm always looking for interesting ideas that add to my mental map of reality. I'm an empiricist, and I'm more interested in what's demonstrably true than in what I'd prefer to be true. And I prefer intelligent conversation rather than passive entertainment.

I'm also interested in massage, and I'd like to find someone to practice with. I like to give long, leisurely backrubs (ever had a two-hour backrub? Yeah, I've done that.) I also like to massage women's hands (it's like holding hands, only more so).

I tend to see the humor in most situations, in a quiet way.

I'm an INTP, if that means anything to you. I tend to relate best to NT and NF types (that is, the more introspective types).
What I’m doing with my life
Thanks to the economy, I've been a full-time student for the last two years. I just moved to Chicago, and I'm looking for a job now.

I'm also a founding member of Milwaukee Makerspace, and I usually spend a few hours a week there. I often build things that make my job easier (I'd rather build a lamp than curse the darkness). I've also joined PS1 in Chicago, which is a similar organization.
I’m really good at
I've been told that I'm a good conversationalist, and that I ask interesting questions.

I'm a pretty good troubleshooter-- I'm very analytical, and I'm good at fixing things. Sometimes I fix things for my lady friends (not necessarily on the first date :-).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot non-fiction, and I seek out obscure books on subjects that interest me. Some interesting ones about communicating with people:

"Some Men are More Perfect than Others" by Merle Shain (1973)
(Dated in some ways, but I like the way she writes)
"Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love" by Nancy Dreyfus (1993)
(These were originally flashcards, later reprinted as a book)
"Nonviolent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg (1999)
(Still reading this one, but it looks good)
"Truth in Dating" by Susan Campbell (2004)
(What a concept!)

I don't pay much attention to music, but I can tolerate almost anything if it's not too loud.

Do people still watch TV? I thought that's what the internet was for :-) I do like the TED videos (www.ted.com)
The six things I could never do without
A quiet refuge (My apartment is remarkably quiet)
Books/internet
Physical projects-- I need get out of my head now and then
Intelligent people to talk with
Cuddling!

That's only five... well, I don't need much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How do introverts ever meet each other?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't mind if you drink, if you don't mind that I don't.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...you'd like a hug! Or, if you'd just like to talk.