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26 F Dayton, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Gujarati (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I seem a little difficult in my profile in the hopes of discouraging the 80% of people from messaging me and only receiving messages from the 20% that truly wish to get to know me. Probably as a guy, you are not aware but If you saw some of the messages girls receive, you'd totally understand. If you can find humor in my profile, then we would probably get along.

If you don't have pictures, don't bother messaging me. We are almost nearing the end of 2014 and if you can't upload a picture, you are either afraid of being discovered by your partner, don't know how to upload a picture, or you have such low esteem that you think no one will talk to you because of your "ugliness". . . all of which I don't want to deal with.

1. I don't believe in the friends with benefits arrangement

2. I never look "amazing" on the first date, meet-up, hang-out or whatever it is. It helps me to weed out all of the shallow people out there (and I have met a lot on this site).

3. If you find that I would be an awesome person to hang out with but not necessarily date, I am totally okay with that. You can still message me and I don't mind having a new friend. And I mean friends as in good old-fashioned, platonic friends. Just let it be clear that's all you want.

4. I LOVE Art

5. I don't like drugs or being around them; alcohol is okay. I like drinking once in a while but I CANNOT be with someone that relies on drugs and alcohol to have fun.

6. I love Marilyn Manson

7. I don't like hypocritically religious people or any religious fanatic of any sort.

8. Nice guys don't finish last but pushovers do. You can be a nice person without being a pushover. I'm living proof. If you think you'll attract me by being an asshole, then you're just sadly mistaken.

9. Please don't ask me if I'm "wild". I also had some guy ask me if I'm a "sexual girl". What does that even mean? Is that your way of asking me if I'm going to end up sleeping with you after a few drinks? Then the answer is NO.

10. I also hate the guys that message me and if I don't respond within a few minutes, they keep messaging me with "????" or "tired of me already?"....I guess it doesn't occur to them that I am not ignoring them but I could actually be busy doing something. The sad thing is they do this while at work! Shouldn't you be working instead of staring at your phone/WORK computer waiting for me to respond?

Things I Have Learned from OKCupid

1. Guys will send a message as blunt as "wanna fuck" and genuinely expect an agreeable response. OR perhaps they blast that message to a bunch of girls and go with the the one that says "yea"

2. Guys will go out of their way to tell me that I sound like a b**** in my profile and that I am not that beautiful.

3. There are "high and mighty" guys that will lecture me on how I should live my life and have a condescending attitude towards me after only talking to me for a day...

4. "I don't see anything romantically between us, but I would like to be friends because you seem like nice person" ....apparently it's not good to say this to a guy because once you do that "nice" guy turns into a jerk. I agree no one likes to be friend-zoned, but I am free to be honest and make my own decision just as you have the right to as well if you don't see things going anywhere with me.

Interesting Experiences on OKCupid

1. A guy stopped talking to me because I told him I don't like going to church.

2. I did not respond to a message from someone (don't remember why), and he found me on facebook to message me and ask me why I didn't respond....

3. A guy that I did not respond to made up a fake profile and messaged me from it to see if I was ignoring him....

4. I met up with this guy and he looked NOTHING like his pictures, and I felt too deceived to even try to like his personality (see doesn't just happen to you)

5. I told this guy I didn't like texting entire conversations back and forth and he asked me "What about Whatsapp or Kik" is that any different..stupidity like that turns me off

6. In my activity feed, this guy answered the following question: "How much does physical attractiveness matter to you?" He answered "A lot" . Meanwhile, he has no profile picture....
guess that means he can pass me off if I'm not "hot enough" but I have to like him for his personality LOL
What I’m doing with my life
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I am looking for a job now.

When I am not job searching I am working out, practicing guitar, and trying to learn new things and and have new experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being resourceful!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very funny and open.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite movies of all time include: Mona Lisa Smile, 13 Going in 30, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Back to the Future, Star Wars, He's Just Not That Into You, The Strangers, Edward Scissorhands, The Dark Knight (love Batman!), Wayne's World, This is Spinal Tap, Wrong Cops

Favorite Shows: Seinfeld, Sex and the City, The Office, Forensic Files, Judge Judy, Bar Rescue, Trailer Park Boys

Books: Sybil, A Streetcar Named Desire, Long Hard Road Out of Hell
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee!
2. Guitar which I am currently learning
3. Music Playlists
4. Drinks!
5. Dramatic lifetime movies
6. Lazy Sundays!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work and my future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually wanting to go out because I work so much during the week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes it's hard to figure out what exactly is going on in my head...but I try to to be pretty straight forward
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can make me laugh!

You're an artist or a musician.

You think all scales should go up to 11.

By the way, if I don't respond, please don't send me ten thousand messages asking why. Seriously.