Relationships over the past few years have been heavily D/S centered. I’m not sure I’m ready to go down that road again but I also don’t know if I can completely avoid that dynamic either, since to be honest, a naturally flowing D/S relationship is addictive. I place a lot of importance on the sub as a person first and a sub second. I was raised to see partners as people.
The kink community is a huge part of my life. For the last six years I’ve been immersed in local BDSM scenes, specifically rope bondage, which is a huge passion of mine- I teach workshops and private lessons. My kinky friends accept who I am and I know I can always be myself around them.
Outdoor exploring is another passion of mine and I’m really lucky to have a job that let’s me enjoy that. However, this means that sometimes I want to skip hiking on the week-ends because I’ve been hiking the entire week. But really, you just have to kick me in the ass a bit and remind me to use a trail- I might even stay on the trail.
Lately I’ve gotten into road cycling for exercise and have found I really enjoy it, favoring long rides. It hooked me up with a great non-profit that I volunteered at until I relocated called Community Cycling Center. I’m looking for riding buddies although I don’t typically bike commute.