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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:53pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just relocated from Portland, Oregon to Denver for work and am looking for new friends and play partners.

Relationships over the past few years have been heavily D/S centered. I’m not sure I’m ready to go down that road again but I also don’t know if I can completely avoid that dynamic either, since to be honest, a naturally flowing D/S relationship is addictive. I place a lot of importance on the sub as a person first and a sub second. I was raised to see partners as people.

The kink community is a huge part of my life. For the last six years I’ve been immersed in local BDSM scenes, specifically rope bondage, which is a huge passion of mine- I teach workshops and private lessons. My kinky friends accept who I am and I know I can always be myself around them.

Outdoor exploring is another passion of mine and I’m really lucky to have a job that let’s me enjoy that. However, this means that sometimes I want to skip hiking on the week-ends because I’ve been hiking the entire week. But really, you just have to kick me in the ass a bit and remind me to use a trail- I might even stay on the trail.

Lately I’ve gotten into road cycling for exercise and have found I really enjoy it, favoring long rides. It hooked me up with a great non-profit that I volunteered at until I relocated called Community Cycling Center. I’m looking for riding buddies although I don’t typically bike commute.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Turning my job into a career, living life and moving forward. I’m exploring more creative outlets which includes investing time for worth while causes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands, I love building, fixing things and cooking. I love to cook and especially like cooking with other people when we click in the kitchen. I’m a problem solver and a great listener. I always seem to be able to think my way through challenges and like helping other people out with theirs. I have a strong shoulder for my friends when they need support.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I’m quiet and observant at first- I pick up on small details.

People say I have a naturally grumpy look on my face and when I have a slight smile that I look upset.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Anything I cook- honestly I love to cook. I just not always fun to cook for one, it’s a little sad. Steak, BBQ (my standards have gone up since getting my own smoker!) Thai, Mexican, Italian, Sushi, Pub foods.

Shows: Band of Brothers, Boardwalk Empire, The Wire, The IT Crowd, Game of Thrones, Family Guy, South Park, Sons of Anarchy, Frisky Dingo, Suits, White Collar, AQTHF, Trailer Park Boys, Breaking Bad. I also enjoy documentaries.

Movies: I’ve got so many favorites, it’s hard to narrow it down! Let’s start with The Departed, Gangs of New York, Fight Club, American History X, Inception, Silence of the Lambs, Boondock Saints, Old School, 300 and Monty Python and the Holy Grail.

Music: I enjoy most genres that aren’t country or insanely hipster. A few genres on frequent rotation are rap and rock with a some favorites being Tool, Dave Mathews Band and Eminem.

Books: To be honest, I’d like to get more reading in than I do but when I do, it’s usually non-fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
Craft beer- the kind you age for a year before you drink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1) Why Thai food containers always leak, no matter what. Why??
2) The future, the past and who I’m spending time with.
3) What I’m going to make for dinner- what beer I want to try next.
4) My plans for the week-end.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying a new craft beer, at an event or party usually kink related, having drinks with friends. Often during the summer I’m getting my bike ready for an epic ride the next morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can’t fold a fitted sheet to save my life but I like to pretend to know how to do everything.

Also, I’ve successfully avoided having an iTunes account.
You should message me if
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You have a background in Cheer stunting and want a partner to work with!

You like bicycling

You are curious about kinky things and want some more information on the local bdsm scene.

You want to scope out happy hour in town with some company