Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty laid back but also have a clear direction in my life and
know what I like and what I am looking for in relationships. I am
happy to make new friends but also looking beyond friendship if it
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm employed full time and have both a job and a career--the two
don't always go together but right now I am working at something I
enjoy and can see myself doing five years from now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling--I like to travel and am pretty spontaneous, whether it's
a weekend in Portland or a trip to Paris. I don't like to plan too
much--just enough to make sure that I don''t spend all my time in
train stations and airports. Also, I make a good travel companion;
I am pretty laid back and willing to share the itinerary with
someone. For me it often is truly the journey more than just the
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess my eyes. Many people mention that I make eye contact and
that I have nice eyes. I don't stare at myself so not too sure
about this but it's a reasonable answer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I just finished "A Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet" by Charles
Atlas which was pretty good. I read lots of historical fiction with
the occasional trashy gay novel thrown in from time to time. I like
movies and go to SIFF pretty consistently. I like many types of
food but if I get to choose the restaurant it will likely be sushi,
Chinese or Thai. I listen to a wide range of music and have an
appreciation for many genres--except most country. Also, i don't
care too much for opera but my friends say that is because I don't
understand it, which is true.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--A big suitcase so I can take more than six things
--My ability to laugh at myself
--My friends and family
--My ability to put things in perspective (i.e. "Don't sweat the
--My heritage--I am first generation American
--A really good homemade tuna melt--the only thing I crave when I
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being purposeful in my life and in my dealings with others. Being
thoughtless is not forgetting someone's birthday but rather doing
the right thing for the wrong reason or lacking understanding on
why we treat each other the way we do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with friends or going to a venue to hear music
or trying a new restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some mystery is a good thing....
I’m looking for
- Guys who like guys
- Ages 32–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are considerate and curious about the world around you. Also,
you should be willing to listen as well as talk. Ask me a
question-start a conversation.
Who are you looking for?
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