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31 M Gananoque, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 23
6′ 2″ (1.87m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Update 23/7/14

Met someone on here :-D I won't be messaging new people on here for the foreseeable future, and if things work out, I'll delete this account.


Bit of an introvert. I'm not unfriendly, but I much prefer the company of a small handful of people I know to that of a crowd. I'm more a listener than a talker. Or at least that's what people tell me :-P

Above average intelligence, but not genius level. Fairly knowledgeable too, though not to the point of being a know-it-all. I devour books, learn new stuff for the fun of it and can keep up a conversation with almost anyone about their areas of expertise without getting bored or left behind.

Got a sense of humour that runs toward snark, sarcasm and self-deprecation. I don't take myself too seriously. Love bad puns and dirty jokes ;-)

Little bit stubborn, but also fairly patient. I can get pretty focused on stuff that I think is important.

Try for kind and honest, even when those two traits conflict. I suppose you'd say I aim for truthful, but never brutally honest. The kind of person who'll tell a friend when they're making a bad decision, but won't tear them down in the process, to use a recent example.

Fond of animals, excluding small yappy dogs.

I like to drive, to walk or to wander. That means road trips, exploring cities on foot, or even just going outside to clear my head and gather my thoughts. Stuck inside in the middle of winter makes me stir crazy.

Wow, you really read this all the way to the end?

I have a serious weakness for women who are geeky/nerdy to some degree. By that I mean shy, introverted, intelligent, focused, eccentric, rational or any combination of the above. If that describes you, message me :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Working my butt off, and saving up as much of my paycheck as I can. I don't love money, but I do love not being broke ;-)

Where's the money going? Weeelll, I'm still figuring that part out. I've been going through a checklist of important things I'd been putting off for years and can now afford to do. Still contemplating the step after ??? I'm leaning towards world domination, but mad science also has its allure...
I’m really good at
Thinking, listening, learning and cracking bad jokes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've never asked. Vocabulary or sense of humour?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:Dresden files, Altered Carbon, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Discworld series, Song of Ice and Fire series, Laundry series

TV Shows: Firefly, Burn Notice, Mythbusters, Monty Python, Game of Thrones, Futurama

Food:Mediterranean cooking, Indian cooking, Pub food, Seafood
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen, water, food, shelter, sunlight and being a smartass :-)

Or, if I'm being serious...

My family, friends, a computer with a working wifi connection, the contents of my bookshelf and my car. And being a smartass... I could survive without being a smartass, but I wouldn't call that living.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
The honest answer to this question is "working". Hey, someone's got to, and I'm heroically letting my fellow bakers get a head start on the weekend :-)

So instead of a typical friday night, how about a typical day off? These days I'd be:

Playing games with my friends. Think video games, not board games. We've got our own TS server, and perhaps a dozen different games we all enjoy.

Curled up with a good book.

Driving into Kingston and hanging out with my offline friends, or my little brother.

Watching a movie. Just got Netflix recently...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm secretly a lab mouse in a human suit, trying to take over the world.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to :-)

If you're clever, funny, kind, shy/introverted and looking for some or all of the above in a partner.

If you're wondering why I haven't messaged you yet
On average, I send a couple of messages per week, more if life doesn't get in the way, less if I'm taking a break from this site. This is primarily because I try to write at least a couple of paragraphs per message, both to show that I'm genuinely interested in the woman I'm contacting, and to avoid getting lost in the flood of generic "Hey, what's up?" messages that other people send.

If I've viewed your profile more than once and/or rated you highly, but haven't gotten in touch, it's likely because I'm still working through the backlog of people I mean to message. Or I might not know what to say, especially if your profile is very short on detail - there are people on here I've thought about messaging several times, but drawn a blank on what to write each time for that exact reason.