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40 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
5' 3" (1.61m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm not from here, but this is home.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an educator. During the school year, I teach alternative education to high school juniors and seniors. I lifeguard on the weekends. I also ran a swim camp this summer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a parking spot, making desserts, picking anyone and everyone up from the airport, where to find the best deal on that, and helping you be totally off track at your boring meeting by texting you insane and wtf things my friends and family send me (meetings suck).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, and that I'm shorter than I appear in photographs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Grapes of Wrath, Great Gatsby, Where the Sidewalk Ends, The Outsiders, The Taming of the Shrew, The Tipping Point, The Poisonwood Bible, Lamb, Enders Game, Madapple, Mists of Avalon, the Handmaid's Tale, The Things They Carried.

Movies: Back to the Future, Goonies, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Goodfellas, Smokey & the Bandit, The Last Emperor, Witness, The Shining, Carrie, Arsenic and Old Lace, Jackie Brown, The Breakfast Club, Leon:The Professional, Friday, Maria, Full of Grace, Pulp Fiction, Pitch Perfect, Kill Bill.

TV: Last Week Tonight, Shameless, Under the Dome, Football, American Horror Story
Food: Sushi, Pizza my heart, vanilla cones from McD's. Steaks by the campfire. French onion soup. Eggs Benedict. Avocados, grapefruit, apricots. Tomatoes from the garden. Cheese ( especially those little Swiss lite wedges, even though I'm not sure that's actually cheese).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A step stool.
Cheese. or Bacon. I can't decide. Both are pretty damn important.
A corkscrew.
Bottle of water.
A really sharp pencil.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I make a difference, today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the week. Every other week, I'm doing something fun with my two boys, 9 & 11. The other Fridays, I'm usually home alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't dance. At all. I can't find the beat to save my life.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live nearish, as in local. Somewhere in the Bay Area. I drive a gas guzzling monster of a SUV. It gets a whopping 11 mpg and I'm stuck with it for now. If you're "in town on business often" I'm not looking for that either, sorry.

I'm @rovrjen on ig. My life in pictures. If you're into that.