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28 M Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), French (Fluently), Hindi (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Preface: As my profile indicates I'm actually seeing someone... so I'm just looking for similar minds and souls on OKCupid!


In the deep forest lives a monster. It visits me from time to time... until one day I discovered it was me.

Recently I was talking to a friend who brought me to the realization that people's characters change. That's true, people change. I will change like everyone else. I knew it - we all do - but at that moment this knowledge impacted on me as a realization. We are all subject to change. Consistency of character is a rare and precious gift.

I changed from carnivore to vegetarian, from smoker to non smoker, from pot head to meditator. These are the positive changes I've seen in me. For sure there must have been negative changes: like the number of books I read yearly, or my attitude towards love.

I spend a lot of time writing code. That's what earns me money. I'm also into spirituality, and eating good (vegetarian) food. I like shopping. I love animals, especially dogs!

I am strong, intelligent and very loving. I dislike closed minded people. I dislike the "whatever" word as well.

I like monks very much, seeing them renews my faith in humanity. I dislike religious twats who are on a mission to convert everything and everyone. I like people who use discernment, I like people who are kind and loving.

I am that I am. I am not the mind. I am not the body. I am not the emotion. I am the soul... Or at least I am trying hard to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Direction: compassion & loving kindness. Spirituality and prosperity. Love.
I’m really good at
Loving. Being affectionate.

Writing English, Speaking French.

Programming and computers (I'm not gonna bore you with details but I do love C#, as well a whole long list of other technologies I'm really good at)

Kundalini yoga

Sitting awareness meditation.

Writing short stories (that's how I'm gonna be rich someday ^^)


Being flexible.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look like a Malay guy. I'm not. As far as I know, my great-grand-mother was from India. My ancestors had the brilliant idea to move to Mauritius, more than a century ago, and now I'm here, for the next few years, in Malaysia. My skin usually turns to a wheat-ish colour during winter, and light-ish brown during summer.

I... wear spectacles.

My hair is slightly scant, although I'm not bald at all.

I'm very kind. A bit old-fashioned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Vegetarian food, mainly the "transformed" soya's
I like drinking V-Soy's Multigrain. Recently it got a bit watery.

Music & Artists I appreciate:
White Flag - Dido, La Noyée - Yann Tiersen, Sacral Nirvana - Olivier Shanti, Rachmaninov's Piano Concerto no. 21, Bach Toccata and Fugue, Servant of Peace, Azure Salver, Adi Shakti - Snatam Kaur, Paramitra Sutra (Heart Sutra) - Imee Ooi, Beethoven's Tempest Sonata mvt. 3, Bach Toccata & Fugue, Pink Floyd, Simon & Garfunkel, Infected Mushroom and a few original electronic / psychedelic artists.

And most recently: Mrs. Robinson - Simon & Garfunkel. Best music, ever!!

Mark Twain is my favourite author. Tom Sawyer is my favourite book by Mark Twain (which I read over fifty times), La Révolution Des Fourmis by Bernard Weber, Contes de Grimm, Composition Francaise by Jean Cau, To Kill a Mockingbird- Harper Lee. The Alchemist. Stephen King... Honestly there are hundreds of books I love, but Tom Sawyer emerges as the ultimate winner. I guess I like books about children. Ah, and recently I purchased "The Prince and the Pauper" by Mark Twain... this book can revolutionize my English, every time after I finish reading it I see a clear difference in my writing style.

The Shawshank Redemption, Pulp Fiction, Limitless, Despicable Me, Madagascar Series, Megamind, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, A Chinese Odyssey, Meet Joe Black, The King's Speech, Scent of a Woman, Mr Nobody, Bicentennial Man, Matrix Trilogy, John Carter, The Time Traveller's Wife, 3 Idiots, Ghosts of Girlfriends Past, Larry Crowne, Le Fabuleux Destin D'Amelie Poulain, What Dreams May Become, Notting Hill, Samsara, Corpse Bride, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, TED, Flirting Scholar, Get the Gringo, Kung-Fu Panda

Naruto (manga), One Piece (manga), Full Metal Alchemist a.k.a. Hagane no Renkinjutsushi (anime), 7 Samurai (animation), Code Geass (animation) and most recently Shingeki no Kyojin
The six things I could never do without
Top 6:
#0: My soul (doesn't count, but without it there would be no me)
#1 My loved ones
#2 My pendant, crystals and dzi's
#3 Nature
#4 My computer and its installed applications and data. (ahh devenv, what would I do without you?)
#5 Money
#6 Internet

Next 6:
My mobile
My wallet
Appropriate and comfortable clothing
Facial creams
My keys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Parallel Dimensions and the Universe, The Supreme Being, Self-improvement and why I'm not doing any of it, Programming, Boobs! (lol jk), Advahita, My intuition, what is my soulmate doing?, the planetary logos, my possible past lives, the black hole at the center of our Galaxy, my soulmate, my plans for success, conquering myself, programming and new ideas, alternate dimensions, theory of the soul, my dream house, the animals I would raise if I had a huge property, my soulmate, the theory of reverse engineering an algorithm by observation, the others like me, where is my soulmate?
On a typical Friday night I am
There is nothing typical in my life. Not even a Friday. If I had a girlfriend Fridays would be spent with her. I'd be massaging her shoulders, and then we'd switch, or we'd go to the movies to watch a romantic movie. Or maybe a scary movie - even if I don't watch any of those I'd still go cause she might want me to hold her hand ^_^ or well... I might be working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been transforming into an asshole. Or maybe it's just an automatic defense mechanism for self-protection.

I dislike Islam, although I try hard not to hate anyone.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you are:

1) Aquarius, Gemini, Aries
2) Vegetarian, Vegan
3) Buddhist / Hindu / Into yoga / meditation / kundalini yoga / Pranic healer / Arhatic Yogi
4) An animal lover
5) into IT / Programming / Manga
6) From Bhutan
7) A friend of mine from a former life
8) In contact with aliens from outer space
9) The resurrection of Bob Marley

Don't hesitate ;)