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Rowanwillow

25 / F / bisexual / Available

Olympia, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Hinduism and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am transgendered, a Zen Buddhist, and a pagan.

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My Self-Summary

I am a transgendered (MtF) woman, a Zen Buddhist, a traveller, an intensely spiritual person, a seeker of enlightenment, illumination, and pleasure.

I am open to all sorts of things. I'm looking for friends and lovers somewhere in this beautiful new city where i live...i just went through a move and a few deaths, so im sort of fragile, but dont worry...

you can look at my website if you Like: http://www.freewebs.com/lithiumdoll/newfoto.html

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What I’m doing with my life

Currently I'm working my way back into freelance journalism and activism, taking it slow since im still recovering from some difficult personal issues.
I've been developing my music, my majik, my performance art, and just generally trying to be active in this beautiful community that im newly a part of. I hope I can go back to school soon and study Indian music and art (as in India).

Oh yeah. My profile says I'm Hindu, but
it's more like I'm an eclectic witch
who sometimes worships Hindu deities
'cause they're beautiful and helpful in many ways...

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I’m really good at

music, art, poetry, singing

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm usually very androgynous. Various species of homo scumfuckus like to come up to me and inquire about the state and shape of my genitals, and whether Im a "boy" or a "girl". Usually I ask them if they're a rhino or a hippopotamus. If that doesnt shut them up, I ask them if they're nosy or just don't know how to mind their own business, politely explaining to them that theres ONLY TWO CHOICES, yeah, cause binary thinking is so great.
It got the human race onto the border of extinction
and extinction is sexy, right?

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

my favorite books, TAZ by Hakim Bey
favorite movies, the Forbidden Zone, The Labrynth, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, anything by Jim Henson...
favorite music... Bjork
favorite food... Indian food with lots of curry.

The six things I could never do without

food, water, a warm place to sleep...

my hormones
my singing bowl
my combat boots
my zodiac necklace

I spend a lot of time thinking about

spirits, God, Goddess, androgeny, what I'm doing with my life, why I'm so crazy and hormonal...

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On a typical Friday night I am

dancing my ass off at a punk rock show or wheatpasting posters up around town or getting into trouble...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've made porn before.

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You should message me if

you're cool with trans and queer people, if you believe in the Great Invisible Spirit/OR if youre an athiest whose cool with religious people, if you like cuddling...

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