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54 Fairfield, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:34am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intellectually evolved, politically left, musically inclined, physically fit, verbally dextrous, spiritually open, disarmingly charismatic, passionately purposeful, comically gifted, youthfully energetic, dependably honest, sensually steeped, and not-too-tough on the eyes!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hopefully, making a difference in the world!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, playing guitar, writing, public speaking, cooking, motivating people, making people laugh, dancing, and kissing!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a lot of comments about my hair (probably the fact that I still have all of it) and my youthful appearance and demeanor. Regarding the latter, most people are stunned when they discover my real age! That's right, I'm actually not 54...although on any given day I can EASILY pull it off. In fact, it's not unusual for me to be taken for late 40s!

So why the deception? Well, for the longest time, my profile listed my actual chronological age and I was having little luck connecting with my PREFERRED age range. For better or worse, it seems many people rule out the possibility of connecting with someone who falls outside a certain set of numbers. And yet, if they met that same person on the street – not having any idea of their age – they might be attracted to them. I wrestled with the ethics of changing my age info for the longest time, but it wasn't until I noticed a number of women employing the same tactic with THEIR profiles that I finally decided to tweak things a bit. Of course, I have no problem revealing the actual number to you if your overall interest warrants it. And if it doesn't, let me at least wish you luck in your own search for the perfect partner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Films: American Hustle, The Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, The Bourne Trilogy, LA Confidential, The Matrix, The Natural, The Dark Knight, The Usual Suspects, A Simple Plan, Blade Runner, Rango, Seven, The Game, Star Trek, Toy Story, Silver Linings Playbook....and that's just for starters!

Guilty TV Pleasures: The Daily Show, Justified, White Collar, Breaking Bad, Louie, The Big Bang Theory, Sherlock, The Black List, Shark Tank, Agents of Shield, Seinfeld, The X-Files, Game of Thrones, Helix, Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee (not exactly a "TV" show, I know).

Authors I've Enjoyed: Wayne Dyer, Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra, Gary Vaynerchuk, Chris Brogan, Napoleon Hill, Brendon Burchard, Tom Peters, Stephen King….to name a few. I tend to prefer personal and professional development over fiction.

Music That Moves Me: Pat Metheny, Steely Dan, Tears For Fears, Sarah McLachlan, Prince, TOTO, Michael McDonald, Sting, Jimi Hendrix, Foo Fighters, Bruce Hornsby, Chris Botti, Robben Ford, Journey, Earth Wind & Fire, Yellowjackets....the list is nearly endless!

Favorite Foods: Sushi, Italian, Middle Eastern, Indian, Mexican, Seafood, Chicken, Steak, and Vegan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Music
2) Laughter
3) Intelligent Conversation
4) Extra Virgin Olive Oil, Tamari, Balsamic Vinegar and Garlic
5) MacBook Pro
6) iPhone
7) Fender Strat

Yeah, I know, that's more than six items. Consider the extras a bonus!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why - with the myriad of devices (phones, tablets and pocket cameras) out there now capable of taking high quality pics - so many OKCupid profiles feature out-of-focus and/or poorly lit photos or worse yet, NO photos at all?!?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I put it here for the world to see it won't exactly be private will it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re emotionally balanced, insatiably curious, athletically able, amorously uninhibited, conversationally competent, compassionately aware, creatively cultivated, aerodynamically sleek, romantically disposed, and uniquely attractive with an infectious laugh and a dazzling smile!