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55 F Happy Valley, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:45am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Instead of listing all my good attributes, let me start with what I'm not. I am not a liar, thief, or cheater (that sums it up, lol). I open the door for others and let them go first. I drive with kindness and let go of rage (not really worth it). I see someone walking down the street and I wonder "what is their story" and are they doing OK? I like animals, especially cats (easier to go on spur of the moment trips).

When I drink, I like wine and beer with an occasional cocktail. I try to eat mostly fish or chicken with a medium-rare steak on occasion. I eat less carbs and more vegetables.

At this age, our bodies are not perfect and I'm embracing my outer/inner beauty. I know that attractiveness comes more from the inside than out. I spend a lot of my time being mindful that my choices also get results (not always good) so, I try to choose what is right over what is wrong. I work on my imperfections and continue to try and improve and then look in the mirror feeling proud of what I have done.

I lean toward a more spiritual way of thinking but not in an organized manner. I just believe that peace and harmony seem to be a positive thing to strive for so I like to try and stop to breathe, be mindful of what is going on around me, and make the best choices I can. Always looking at the positive and not the negative.

I want to explore other places more often and I'm open to whatever that is. The goal would be to find someone who is easy to do that with. You have to like each other.

I hope this gives you an idea of who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Besides work, I play soccer and love it. I am on a journey of improvement both physically & emotionally (already made tons of progress). I believe you will never stop learning, adapting, growing, and changing and I currently am enjoying the process of becoming more authentic and true.
I’m really good at
Being a true friend, cooking, laughing, being positive, being sincere & loyal. I'm also good at lots of things that lead to fun. As a Virgo, I am detailed and focus hard on getting the job done and getting it done right. Like to consider astrology both western and eastern and find it fun to explore. It doesn't rule my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
is honesty, sincerety, my optimism, my smile, quick witted sense of humor, and most of all, my laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is always a work-in-progress. I like much of what I read on your profile on all subjects above. I won't say no necessarily but choosing a thriller is probably not my first choice. Although, I do like psychological thrillers...loved "Silence of the Lambs." Like lots of fictions but into also reading "self help" books from a more spiritual standpoint. Right now, the best author of these books is David Richo. Check him out.
The six things I could never do without
#1 My daughter
Then in no particular order:
And lumped together all necessities to live & breath.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the universe plays a role in who we are and where we go so it can help me improve my life and not repeat big mistakes...
What's next? The door is wide open for lots of great conversation and fun. I wonder a lot how you get the point across in a profile that you are worth contacting and getting to know someone is worth a try even if it's not in the cards for long term commitment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes just relaxing and chilling because it's been a long week and it's nice to sit and breath. Socializing with old & new friends. Seeing a movie. Maybe dancing and listening to music. In the summer, getting outdoors and enjoying an atmosphere where there are people mulling about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing online. But there is a lot to find out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If any of this resonates with you, send me a message over a flirt or wink. If you aren’t smiling in your photo, consider sending one showing your pearly whites. Having a happy face is more appealing than a grumpy one. I’ve been online dating for a while and I know we’ve all run across each other numerous times but it’s always OK to reconsider what you passed up in the past.