I am a warm hearted, slightly selfish, friendly, somewhat hedonistic, complicated, opinionated, polyamorous, stubborn, usually easy going, bisexual, cute, Pagan, happy, confusing, hyper, honest (sometimes brutally so), caffeine junkie. I am short, curvy, spunky, and a bit of a nympho. I am a decent cook, an avid reader, a bit of a geek, a cat lover, sometimes a bit short tempered but almost always quick to apologize, a walking contradiction, silly, and addicted to office supplies (especially pens and markers).

I am married, my husband, suffolkswinger, is my favorite person on earth. However, as I said I am both bisexual and polyamorous, so here I am on OKC. I am more interested in women than men at the moment, but that doesn't mean I'm completely against the idea of couples or men.

What I'm interested in:
Women - I usually find myself more attracted to short, curvy women than skinny chicks. Women with a geek streak are a definite weakness for me. I like strong confident women who know and like who they are. It is definitely more about personality than looks for me. I have no preference between bisexual or lesbian. Being into my husband too is not a prerequisite, I'm not on here just looking for threesomes - though I also would not complain ;)
Men - I prefer shorter guys. I definitely have a thing for geeks. I am not attracted to blond guys (nothing against them, they just don't do it for me) and I'm not looking for anyone old enough to be my dad.
With men or women I am not into cheaters. I'm also not looking to leave my husband. I don't do entirely JUST sex very well at all, I am looking for people that I can at the very least also be friends with.

Want to know more? http://www.myspace.com/justagyrl

I am currently looking for a teaching position here. My husband and I also just bought a house, so we're in the middle of all the new home owner stuff.

Getting myself into trouble, cooking, sex, confusing people and/or driving them nuts (usually in a good way), drinking (especially tequilla) - though I don't do it much even though I'm good at it, research, losing track of time, listening, teaching people things, sudoku, multitasking, staying awake for long periods of time (often because I simply forget to go to sleep), cleaning (ok, so I'm slightly OCD), assembling the world's best collection of Skechers, playing with the kitties, spending entirely too much time on my computer, shopping (especially for Skechers or tshirts from threadless.com), organizing (usually over-organizing) things, jiggling my boobies

Now that I must keep my hair a normal color I would say my eyes, how hyper I am, my boobs (they're great what can I say?), the fact that I'm pretty much always happy, judging by a recent comment people quickly notice that I don't usually wear much other than jeans and tshirts

Books - I'm a book slut. I love books. My husband and I have 4,417 as of June 11, 2009. I am currently in the middle of reading The Twilight series by Stephenie Meyers, Druid Magic by Maya Magee Sutton, The Worlds of Theodore Sturgeon, What's the Matter with Kansas by Thomas Frank, Women who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Women Who Run With The Werewolves edited by Pam Keesey, and Vampires: Encounters with the Undead edited by David J. Skal. I'm very rarely in the middle of only one book. I am also in the middle of working my way through an algebra book, learning Spanish, and studying Arkansas history. I keep trying to read the Bible, but I keep getting bored or disgusted and stopping. I don't like the cookie cutter crap that was written faster than I can read it - such as Harlequin (though I will pick one up every now and then if I need to try to turn my brain off or at least down a little). Other than that I like pretty much all books, so it is very difficult for me to list favorites. I guess the best I can do is to say my favorite type of book is one that will make me think. I suppose I could try to list a few favorite authors: Stephen King, Diana Gabaldon, Jean Auel, John Saul, Shakespeare, John Farris, Thomas Harris, Scott Cunningham, Kate West, Charlotte Bronte, Anne Rice, ok I am going to stop now before this gets insanely long. If I absolutely had to pick a single favorite book, it would have to be The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton. I also love the story of Beauty and the Beast and adore all versions of it that I have read so far.

Movies - As with books, I am very eclectic. Some of my favorites are The Butterfly Effect, Artificial Intelligence, Princess Bride, The Voyage of the Unicorn, The Green Mile, Gandhi, Footloose, 50 First Dates, The Virgin Suicides, Lion King, A Walk in the Clouds, Mannequin, Independence Day, The Little Mermaid, Armageddon, Maximum Overdrive, Philadelphia, Schindler's List, My Life, Save The Last Dance, The Breakfast Club, My Cousin Vinny, Spaceballs, Erin Brockavich, Beauty and the Beast, Along Came Polly, Elektra, Cabin Fever, Daredevil, Spider-Man, A Beautiful Mind, The Stand, Stand By Me this list could get really long, so I'll stop now.

Television (because it should be here) - Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Charmed, ER, Scrubs, the various CSIs, NCIS, MASH, Dr. Who, Family Guy, American Dad, House, Red Dwarf, Dharma and Greg, Missing, Close to Home, Law and Order, Ellen

Music - Everything from Mozart to Manson. The only genre I don't like is Opera and that isn't really a dislike since I truly wish I could listen to it, but the pitches make my head hurt. There might be specific artists or songs that I don't like, but there are many more that I do. Right now some of my favorites are Alanis Morisette, Meatloaf, The Ramones, Rancid, CCR, Butthole Surfers, Emerald Rose, Godsmack, Black Label Society, Ozzy, Pink, Reba, The Judds, Sarah Evans, Avril Lavigne, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Mindy McCready, Lynard Skynard, 1000 Homo DJs, The Irish Rovers, John Michael Montgomery, Mediaeval Baebes, Marvin Gay, Gaia Consort, Pantera, this list could get even longer than the movie list so just assume that if it's not opera I will probably like it.

Foods - cherries, chocolate, shark, sushi, dim sum, wasabi peas, squid, rare steak, alligator, asparagus, all things spicy, mushy peas, crawdads, toast with lemon jelly, pumpkin soup, birthday cake, salmon, chocolate chip waffles, zucchini, cheese

My wolf (most people would refer to him as my husband), my friends and family, music, books, intimacy, caffeine

Intimacy, sex, karma, why we can't just all get along, the nature of humans, things like the color of time, evolution, whether we control the world or the world controls us, why there are so many human sheep, how to get the things I want but don't have yet, more sex, whether we even exist at all or are just the figment of someone's imagination, maybe I exist and I'm dreaming all of you, if I had complete control of the entire world for a week or so what would I do?, vampires,

In bed ;-) , playing on the computer, watching movies, reading, clubbing, out to dinner, it just depends on my mood (and the mood of people I'm with at the time) I'm a very spontaneous person. These days I'm most likely home with my husband.

I can lick my own nipples.

-you find me interesting

-you think I would find you interesting

-you just want to

-you are interested in new friends

-you are Pagan and/or would like to discuss Pagany things with me

-you think you know something about Arkansas that I would enjoy or that I should know about for some other reason

-you want to tell me what color you think time is

-you think you might be a penguin in disguise

-you are an interesting, sexy, bisexual or lesbian woman in the Little Rock Arkansas area who is interested in me, my husband, or both ;-)