I am married (open relationship), work at least 40 hours a week, and have two young kids. This will chase off most of you, so I decided to throw it out there first. I am not looking to leave my wife and she is not looking to leave me. We've just decided that we will play around a little on the side, but wanted to stay away from one night stands. She already has a boyfriend, so I figured that I would give this a try and see if there was someone like minded out there was also interested in something casual. I have very little free time. Again, this will probably chase most of you away. This is all very new to me, so I'm winging it.

I work a lot. With the little free time I have, I spend it BBQing, at the gun range, shooting pool, drinking (at the BBQ), and trying to catch up on my DVR.

I love to play pool. My movie, book, and music knowledge is all pretty solid. Im real good at useless trivia when it comes to movies. If you give me the plot, I could usually give you the movie, even if I haven't seen it. I am also decent at grilling up dinner.

My favorite movies are the Godfather 1&2 ( I don't count 3), American Psycho, the Big Lebowski, Appaloosa, and The Silence of the Lambs. I could go on and on and on...

Like movies, listing books is hard. I am a big fan of Stephen King, Robert B Parker, Max Brooks, Richard Matheson, Cormac McCarthy, and Michael Crichton.

Music, I'm all over the map. Clutch, Type O Negative, Crowbar, Lamb of God, The Beatles, Harry Nillson, Fiona Apple, Tech Nine, Eminem, dubstep (has to be real bottom heavy though)

Toothbrush
Coffee
Whiskey
Ice (for the whiskey and sometimes the coffee)
Ipod
My BBQ Grill

ECV. I just became a proud member in May

I'm an open book. Don't have anything that I wouldn't tell somebody the first time I met them.

You do not have a problem that I work full time and have a wife and a family. You are looking for something light and easy going.