I feel it's very necessary to be upfront. A lot of people read my profile and think that maybe it's code or they will change my mind. If you are someone who travels, works a lot, or who isn't looking for something serious and wants a friend to do things with or hang out with on occasion that's me. If you are looking to get married, or something uber serious that is not on my plate of offerings. I make a really awesome friend.
If you sincerely want to talk to me send something thought out. Hi, you're sexy and other bullshit messages won't be answered. If we aren't compatible I won't answer. It's not personal. I tried being nice and responding to all of messages and it didn't go well so I'll only be responding if I'm interested.
I'm extremely open-minded, like to laugh, but beyond the sweet face I have a very dominant personality. I'm an INFJ and a double Scorpio with an Aries moon. I have no use for fakes and flakes and enjoy spending time with guys usually because they are more real. But I would really like to find some down to earth females as well. I'm told I have a dude personality. By Myers Briggs standards my personality is 1% of the percentile. I am not everyone's cup of tea. Most people either love me or hate me and truthfully I hate most people. Because let's be real, people suck. However there are a few needles in the haystack. I'm looking for needles. Preferably sparkly ones.
I enjoy travel. I love the ocean. I just like getting out and about. Movies, music, comedy clubs, nature. I like to just do different things. I also just like to hang out and do nothing. What I don't want to do: workout with you, or go hiking. These seem like the go to's. I love walking on trails up in Sedona or flag but I'm not the mountain scaler type. I like lush greenness, animals, flora. The desert looks like dirt and I try not to see it as much as possible. I'm from newport RI and I spend most of the time thinking about being OUT of Phoenix.
My body is my temple and I do not have casual sexual encounters. It is far more likely you will gain access to a friendship than to my body. I am not casual in my relationships, sexual or otherwise. My interest in anyone is about as a rare as a unicorn and please don't mistake love, emotional investment or friendship for meaning I want to have sex with you. They are not interchangeable in my world and I am quite capable of loving someone and not having a sexual relationship.
I prefer getting to know people face to face or over text or social media rather than trying to gauge them based on a few paragraphs. So if you are open to social networking, texts, coffees and friends cool. If not....get outta here kid ya bother me.