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57 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:10am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
When drinking
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I enjoy strong willed, intelligent women who are well read, know what they like, are comfortable with their sexuality, have a wicked sense of humor and enjoy discussing anything from food to the best episode of The Big Bang Theory. I also find women with a bit of a kinky side ( realized or not ) are usually just more fun and more interesting. I'm an active person, like sports, the outdoors, shopping, walking, talking. Love good conversation, witty people, especially witty people with a bit of an obnoxious sense of humor. So if your sense of humor is slightly on the skewed side, even better. I'm a software manager but also an artist and a musician. I'm a huge music fan, I play the guitar and bass and I've been a studio session musician in the bay area. I record my own music and help others record theirs. I adore people who can sing, so if you can sing I probably already like you. I get along well with musicians and artists. I like to go out but I like to just hang out too. Not sure what I'm looking for at the moment to be perfectly honest, friends for sure, fun dates, hanging out, more, who knows. I do know that I look and act younger than my actual age so I'm not going to be interested in someone who acts old or is not active and doesn't at least try and keep themselves in fairly decent shape. I have two teenage children so they take up some of my time, so does my house and my job but I have plenty of time to spend with people I enjoy.
I love the beach and the ocean but I like cities too. I like people that don't have a lot of baggage, life is short and should be experienced fairly drama free.
I've almost given up on this site a few times and if I read one more "I'm an honest, sincere, friendly person" start to a profile I'm going to gag. I guess writing an honest pitch in the profile section is hard, but creativity counts. I like connections, emotionally, intellectually and physically. That all takes a bit of work of course, and it can get tiring introducing yourself over and over.
I like the adventure of meeting new people, getting to know them, finding things in common, opening up new experiences. We never stop learning and it sure beats watching re-runs on TV.
One last thing, I'm a bit geeky at times, I definitely don't always act my age, I also love science and technology and things that are cutting edge and if you put me in a guitar store I'm like a kid at Disneyland. Sometimes I'm more in step with the generation below me than my own. That doesn't mean that I'm not also at ease with fine wines, good food and the finer things in life. I also have a few kink friends in the bay area, that doesn't mean I'm not comfortable in the vanilla world, I am, but I enjoy all types of people and life styles. For me it's all about exploration and communication, I'd love to find someone that I connect with on all fronts. Trying to cram in as much as possible about yourself into this kind of profile is impossible. I'm complex, so are most people.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, playing music, building things when I find the time. I hate sitting around so I tend to keep myself busy, sometimes that's building a new guitar, working in my yard, fixing something or just playing video games with my son.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, art, talking, cooking, growing things, computers, wielding a mean hairbrush and driving. Ok, I had to put driving because there are so many bad drivers in the bay area.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and then my sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a big SciFi fan but I like comedies and dramas if they're not really slow. I read a lot, I really only watch movies when I have nothing else to do. I love Big Bang Theory, the writing and acting are great and it constantly cracks me up.
I like music period and I can listen to most anything besides jazz but at heart I'm still a rock n roller so that's what I tend to listen to the most.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to read, my guitars, my Mesa amp, my family, art, tacos.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the time change suddenly makes everyone a bad driver.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or just hanging out but most likely playing music somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes like to see what I can get away with.
You should message me if
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You can converse, are active, in shape, well, not way out of shape, comfortable with yourself, enjoy sex and companionship, like adventure, are sometimes a tad ( or more!) naughty, like trying new things and like intelligent men. Or you're just curious, I like meeting new people and talking so I'm perfectly open to just chatting. Bonus points if you're a musician and can sing, or an artist. But no points off if you're not.