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Rubensalas Away

39 / M / Straight / Single

Los Gatos, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
I decided to give this a try; based on some of my friends success, why not right? I've always believed whoever I date has to have the qualities I look for in a friend. I want her to be my best friend. I want to be able to go for a hike with her, chill and watch a movie, but also set goals and succeed together. I believe mental stimulation far outweighs physical stimulation as you grow older with your partner, but I still want to keep it fun.

Don't you hate how it feels like you need to sell yourself on a first date? It feels like you're exchanging resumes, but I am a realist dater who doesn't need to walk away from a first date wanting to whisk her away to Paris. I want to get to know you. What makes you happy, what erks you, your goals, your dreams..

I'm looking for a woman who will listen from time to time, is emotionally stable, enjoys doing a variety of things for fun. I am not looking for the perfect girl, just the perfect one for me.

I am not trying to appeal to the broader mass here by saying i live a healthy lifestyle of hiking, running and exercise yet i will tell you I do exercise, but I also enjoy movies ( but who doesn't).  I am a focused professional. I'm driven. Goal oriented. Yet also down to earth and humble. I would like to meet that special girl who can be my best friend.

I know everyone says they have a sense of humor, but i truly enjoy laughing and like a girl who can poke fun at herself from time to time. Life is to short,I want a REAL girl.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working in the IT Industry Software company based in Palo Alto. I try to spend as much time with my friends and family. I think it's important to have a balance.
I’m really good at
multi-tasking... turning a conversation upside down... .. new sports... entertaining at home... listening... keeping in touch with old friends... making people smile.
The first things people usually notice about me
They notice my smile,charm and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Crucial Conversations by Stephen R. Covey"
The six things I could never do without
Honesty
Laughter
Love
Affection
Family
Happiness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My impact on the world. I believe that we are all connected somehow; and that everything we do has an impact. I also spend a lot of time thinking about all the turmoil in this world and how I can possibly do my part to make a Difference .
On a typical Friday night I am
Movie, friends,family,staying at home, reading, it really depends on the weather or how I'm feeling.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You should message me if you are a true person with in yourself and want to laugh. Yes, looking for long term but let's see first how it goes...:)