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RubyDove845

42 Kingston, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 40 year old Divorced Hispanic/ Latina.

As a social worker, I love helping individuals, children & families. My favorite is working with children & families.

I also have great appreciation for the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Kingston, NY. I love the way people of different faiths come together and enjoy the riches of different faiths and share special occasions of different faiths with each other. I feel right at home looking forward to getting involved with their Social Action Committee & Youth Services.

I moved to Ulster County from Long
Island 3 years ago. I'm still getting acclimated to the area. I enjoy discussion groups, hiking, knitting, helping others, walking my Logan (puppy/dog) at rail trails, relaxing, CSI/SVU shows, Rachel Maddow (she's hot & intelligent...well, that's what makes her hot--she's intelligent), nature & animal shows, chatting at cafe, eating veggies & fruit, dessert & wine (a glass or two the most).

Be forewarned, some of what follows is useful for a potential long term relationship, and not so much for potential friendships and acquaintances...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Thinking about the next step in my career, spiritually, personally & relationship-wise. I would love to take Trauma Counseling for Children & Families & Education & Ministry courses in the near future...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(1) I'm very supportive of my family and my friends.
(2) I love being a social worker and helping others. I'm sensitive and honest. I'm creative.
(3) I make beautiful jewelry.
(4) I'm passionate, love to laugh and have a great time (I've been told I'm a very happy person), yet I also love serenity & tranquility during the evenings.
(5) dancing around the house to Mama Mia, salsa/merengue & club music while cleaning and doing laundry
(6) enjoying a good game of Scrabble (Now don't spoil it by being competitive!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, skin, lips, hips, (hour glass) figure. But if you were to look deeper (God willing): (1) my personality: people feel comfortable, relaxed and at ease/ a trusting feeling and we have deep and interesting discussions. (2) people say I'm humble and very caring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Women Who Run with the Wolves
Movies: Mama Mia; Like Water for Chocolate; The Ultimate Gift
Food: Indian, Spanish, Italian, Sushi.
Music: Oldies, 40s as well, Club Music (KTU/NYC); Mama Mia (Of Course!) and a variety (love Pandora!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well assuming I already have deodorant, toothbrush & toothpaste & soap and water, tweezer, earrings & blow dryer...lol)
I would have to say yarn & knitting needles, coffee, sweets, a book/ a notebook/pen to journal & write and my family (includes my crazy Hispanic parents, my dog, Logan and my cockatiel, Shiloh).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend alot of time thinking about shit...and I need to get out of my head sometimes, live life and enjoy myself....one day at a time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays....I'm spending time with my dog & friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm easy to talk to but very selective with whom I allow to get close. I take slow steps...and I'm cautious.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(1) If all this psychobabble hasn't gotten to you...
(2) If you have what they call "emotional intelligence" ...for example you can communicate feelings, needs & desires. If you can adapt to changing times and talk about the good & not soo good stuff.
(3) If you like stability, passionate times, times of serenity & tranquility, love nature and dogs.
(4) If you're a vibrant person and you want to live life to the fullest...and you've done your therapy, and you're not looking for a therapist in me but a partner! You know ready to give 200%.
(5) If of course you want to have a shit load of fun!
(6) If you're still breathing at this point and made it this far, which of course as a result you have proven to be a VERY resilient and attentive person, and therefore, you should consider writing to me...
Take care ;-)