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Rubylark

45 F Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just moved to Cambridge and would be delighted to make some new friends. Although realistic about the limitations of online dating, I'm approaching it with an open mind and making a special connection would be a lovely bonus. I hope that I'm not going to be OkCupiding for very long, because I would rather be interacting in a more 3-dimensional manner, but such are the (mis)adventures of an analog girl in a digital world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seizing it by the scruff of its neck and living it fully, because I understand its fragility and doing so with passion, compassion, gusto and a sense of humour.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Starting to answer these profile questions in the middle of the night, consequently having to leave half of them blank.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair of a not-so-natural hue, a big genuine smile, that I make direct eye contact and that my accent is from a distant neck of the woods.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Interpreter of Maladies, On Love, The Incredible Lightness of Being, Middlesex, Lolita, The God of Small Things, The Corrections, Nine Stories, Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair, Griffin and Sabine, If You're Afraid of the Dark, Remember the Night Rainbow.
Movies:
Double Indemnity, Cinema Paradiso, You Can Count on Me, Buffalo 66, Lost in Translation, Run Lola Run, Catfish, Matador, Chungking Express, Italian for Beginners, Central Station, The White Balloon, The Bicycle Thief, Junebug, Fargo, Blade Runner, Rebel Without a Cause, The Lives of Others, The Sweet Hereafter, Il Postino, Bottle Rocket, Shallow Grave, The Graduate, Harold and Maude, Best of Youth, Mulholland Drive, Secrets and Lies, Fish Tank, True Romance, Whale Rider, North by Northwest, The Squid and the Whale, Rumble Fish, The Apartment, Some Like it Hot. I suppose it's clear that I'm particularly fond of films by now.
Shows:
Mad Men, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Californication, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Flight of the Conchords, Twin Peaks, Six Feet Under, Outnumbered, Gavin and Stacey, Peep Show, Ray Donovan.
Music:
Azure Ray, Postal Service, Black Box Recorder, Portishead, Astrud Gilberto, Stan Getz, Air, Early Bowie, 80's New Wave, Thievery Corporation, Pink Martini, Goldfrapp, Cocteau Twins, Massive Attack, Nouvelle Vague, CocoRosie, Hooverphonic, Snooze, Koop, Boards of Canada, Zero 7.
Food:
Almost anything but seafood, beetroots, Brussels sprouts, radishes and liver. Oh and nothing too spicy, I'm a lightweight like that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Living near the ocean, a camera of some sort, kindness, fresh air, starry skies, a passport or two.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why my memory is positively sieve-like in my old age and then I forget that that was what I was thinking about. Also, more recently, why I seem to appeal to those who are married, or polyamorous, or young enough to be my children. Much as I genuinely believe to each his own, I am not looking for any of the above. Thank you and good night.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often decompressing. I've created a home I love to relax in and Friday night is my favourite time to do that. I enjoy going out, but tend to do so during the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have watched (are you sitting down?) Here Comes Honey Boo Boo. But it was just in the name of sociological study, I swear.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think I'm sparkly of eye and you are a solid man with social grace and emotional intelligence, who would never wear those terrifying toe shoes.