OK, ladies. Time to start thinking out of that box you grew up in.
For starters, let's just kill the stereotype right here. I am 5'11"
tall and weigh 215 lbs of well built gym product. I have a
beautiful baritone voice speaking and singing, and I'm socially
very adept. I play the guitar, I work out regularly, I'm a former
competitive martial artist and semi-pro soccer player, I ride
motorcycles, I kayak .....the list goes on and on....reads "very
active". Anything outdoors, you name it, I'm game. My bucket list
includes things like hiking at least a part of the Appalachian
trail, circumnavigating the Florida coastline in a Kayak, exploring
the Amazon, and doing an extended North American continental road
trip. I enjoy giving fantastic massages, I'm chivalrous (yes I do
open doors and pull out chairs), and I'm a wonderful dancer. Want a
specially prepared meal by candlelight? Yeah...I do that too. I'm a
terrific listener, but also hold my own with excellent
conversational skills. I write poetry and songs and I even sing
them too. Ok...we can give in to one stereotype...I'm very
intelligent, and was always a straight A student, but not the geeky
kind. In short, I'm a fully charged lithium ion battery of
masculine male that is not without a fair modicum of consideration
and sensitivity. Oh yeah....I'm also modest.....;-)
What I’m doing with my life
I own and operate a company that plans, manages, and installs
modular systems office furniture (cubicles)
I’m really good at
Singing, poetry, Martial arts, working with any kind of tools
(reads extremely handy), guitar, most sports.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am athletic and don't look like the stereotype Asian male.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi/fantasy books, favorite movie is Grease, I love most music
except for gangster rap and any kind of head banging or grunge
rock. Preferences include blues, jazz, reggae, classic rock,
Motown, R&B. I enjoy most any kind of food, but Seafood is my
The six things I could never do without
To begin with, I can start a fire with two sticks and no knife, so
I really don't think there's anything I can't do without. But, if
we must, here goes.
1. My cell phone - like pretty much everyone else
2. Music - very important in my life. It is my biggest creative
outlet and stress relief
3. Exercise - Also huge for the health and stress relief
4. Family - I'd be lonely without them
5. True friends - see number 4
6. The ocean - see number 3
As a side note, a significant other would be number 1 but
obviously, if I'm on here, I'm surviving without one thus far.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the future will bring, and who I'll end up spending it with.
Other than that I try to live in the moment and enjoy each day as
if it's my last....within reason.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wherever the winds of chance take me. Could be a quiet evening at
home watching TV, hanging or having dinner and wine with friends,
cruising on my motorcycle to the beach, or even hanging with my
tablet at Starbucks people watching.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I put that here, it wouldn't be private any more would it? Let's
just say that whatever it is, I would admit it only to someone
special....could be you.
You should message me if
You truly are looking for a real man, a good man, a man's man, an
honest and sincere man, a loyal and faithful man