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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:41am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Howdy strangers! I just very recently relocated to Chicago from Philly for graduate school. Previously, I worked in stem cell research and so consider myself a little bit of a nerd. I am very passionate about fitness and try hitting the gym everyday lifting, running, boxing, TRX training, and just about anything to keep me sweating.

I'm quite introverted and prefer to stay under the radar. Not your typical gay quality and certainly not helpful for finding dates. I Like observing people but without the verbal judgements. Contrary to my outward appearance, I'm pretty mild mannered and even tempered. I appear confident to most but I'm VERY shy when it comes to guys.

There aren't a lot of personal skills I like to advertise but I'm a really good COOK! I love to dance and kick myself in the butt for not getting formal training in it.

Right now I think im getting addicted to tattoos. Have quite a few and plan on getting more. I find tats to be incredibly attractive on a guy. I like gauges and some piercings too but nothing too crazy. I also just adopted two French bulldog puppies that I'm obsessed with and are taking up a lot of my time and attention. This is my first real attempt at commitment, so go right ahead and judge me. I ain't sweatin.. My frenchies bring all the boys in the yard. Their life is better than yours.

I am very easily antagonized and repulsed by confrontation. And it's usually irreversible if and when that happens because I never forget despite having forgiven. I also am not a fan of loud, overbearing, abrasive, cocky, sarcastic personalities. These almost always rub me the wrong way. In contrast, I am intrigued by the silent, confident, slightly aloof types and so gravitate toward them.
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently left the stem cell research field to pursue graduate school full-time. Just finished my first trimester at Northwestern for my doctorate in physical therapy. One usually finds me at the gym when I'm not buried in books, or tending to my doggies. I'm hoping that at some point I'll have a real human male to attend to ;-).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being socially awkward, not making eye contact, kissing, oh and math too :).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My tattoos i guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by David Sedaris
Movies: Melancholia
Shows: American Horror Story, Project Runway, Looking, Top Chef, SYTYCD
Music: All kinds except heavy metal and country
Food: Japanese, Filipino, seafood, DIMSUM!!!!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A) Family
B) Gym
C) School
D) iPhone
E) Ambition
F) Brody & Boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future. My ambition - DPT MPO MBA. Settling down. Why the f*** I am choosing to live in sub-zero climate??! The next great restaurant to try out in ChiTown. Why I can't seem to find a hubby.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days usually studying. Sad I know... But not 'til after the gym. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I prefer to be the small spoon ;-). I have a thing for chest hair, scruff, and light colored, puppy dog eyes.
You should message me if
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Let's start with coffee or a drink.. Looking to make lasting friendships and also a work out buddy. Then who knows?