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34 M Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:23pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am an inquisitive writer who is amused with witty, clever, and smart conversations, thoughts, and ideas. Former singer/songwriter and filmmaker. I have an acute awareness of absurd and accurate alliteration (not really).

Always Asian, Film Geek, Nerd Enthusiast, and NPR Junkie. That's Rudie!

How are you?
What I’m doing with my life
I am a film critic and pop culture/movie blogger, screenwriter, novelist, and other "making words into sentences" projects.

I am part of a great workspace and creative collective in Bushwick. I love it!
I’m really good at
Writing, having well-informed opinions, smiling, hanging out at bars, catching trains on time, mingling at parties, and overtipping my bartenders.
The first things people usually notice about me
It's most likely my beard, then the smile under my beard. I am the rare breed of Asian that can grow a full and luxurious beard. It's a talent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Catcher In The Rye, Perks of Being a Wallflower, South of The Border/West of The Sun, Nine Stories, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, What Is the What, Wuthering Heights, The Giving Tree, Slaughterhouse Five, Where I'm Calling From, Mansfield Park, Franny and Zooey, and High Fidelity.

Magnolia, Rushmore, Exit Through The Gift Shop, Network, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, High Fidelity, Chungking Express, Naked, House, West Side Story, Metropolitan, Annie Hall, Wuthering Heights, Once Upon A Time In America, Serenity, The Last Days of Disco, Attack The Block, Shaun Of The Dead, Upstream Color, 9 Songs, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, and Before Midnight.

TV Shows:
Firefly, Freaks and Geeks, My So-Called Life, Sports Night, Mad Men, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Orange Is The New Black, Flight of the Conchords, Party Down, The Inbetweeners, Fresh Meat, Undeclared, Futurama, and Community.

Jeff Buckley, Elliott Smith, Belle & Sebastian, Morrissey, The Smiths, Ryan Adams, Panda Bear, Pavement, Damien Rice, Tribe Called Quest, Ben Folds, Notorious B.I.G., That Dog, Weezer, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Ted Leo, Avi Buffalo, Cloud Nothings, Bonnie "Prince" Billy, The Cardigans, Animal Collective, Jets To Brazil, The Pharcyde, Cibo Matto, Dr. Dog, Amiee Mann, Clem Snide, Fiona Apple, Speedy Ortiz, and Neko Case.

Vegan, Vegetarian, Mexican, Indian, and Ethiopian
The six things I could never do without
-A comb
-My Family
-NRP, Slate, and other highbrow & liberal-leaning podcasts
-My Glasses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Having something interesting and engaging to say. A new story to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
Thursday night is the new Friday...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like movies, you have really strong opinions, excellent and interesting tastes in pop culture and music, nerdy things, and coffee in the evening. Come and say "hi!"

Also, if you like being the last two people in a bar before it closes for the night because we didn't notice it was last call due to our amazing conversation about nothing at all. Send me a message....