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40 M New York, NY

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Swedish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I’m a writer, a filmmaker, an improv comedian, a night owl, an idealist, a native New Yorker, and a pretty good cook. I have a strong sense of fair play, a great sense of direction and a terrible sense of time. I’m also never one to let anything get in the way of a good joke.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently finished a feature length documentary about the ICEHOTEL in Sweden and am now putting together a film about China and the Dao of improv. I'm also working on a bunch of writing projects (plays and sketch comedy right now), I'm doing my utmost to earn a place at the Upright Citizen's Brigade theatre, I travel a fair amount, and I spend a whole lot of time going to the movies, to the theater, to museums and to concerts.
I’m really good at
conversing till the cows come home, bumping into things, serenading my cats, figuring stuff out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I just asked one of my improv coaches this question and she said the first things she noticed about me were that I had good manners and that I used my hands a lot when I spoke.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books:
The Life of Samuel Johnson, In Cold Blood, Mating, The Corrections, The Codex Seraphinianus, The Great Gatsby, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Deathbird Stories, Earth Abides, The Deptford Trilogy, Everything by Lynda Barry.

Favorite movies:
Blade Runner, Blue Velvet, Singin' in the Rain, Lawrence of Arabia, Apocalypse Now, Come and See, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Alien, Psycho, Heat, The Shining, The Godfather, The Fly, Once Upon a Time in the West, Days of Heaven, Dawn of the Dead, 8 1/2, The Road Warrior, The Empire Strikes Back, The Wrath of Khan, His Girl Friday, Empire of the Sun.

Favorite television shows:
The Wire, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, The Prisoner, Arrested Development, Monty Python, Star Trek, The Singing Detective, The Odd Couple, BSG, Buffy, Firefly, Veronica Mars, Spaced, Twin Peaks, The Adventures of Pete and Pete, The Ren & Stimpy Show.

Favorite music:
Brian Eno, David Bowie, Laurie Anderson, Radiohead, St. Vincent, The Beatles, Cocteau Twins, The Clash, Pink Floyd, Talking Heads, Joe Jackson, Yes, Vangelis, Latin Playboys.

Favorite artists: Janet Cardiff, Yayoi Kusama, Doug Wheeler, Richard Wilson, James Turrell, Anthony McCall, Peter Schmidt, Salvador Dalí, Amadeo Modigliani, Pipilotti Rist, Richard Serra, Olafur Eliasson, Maya Lin, Antoni Gaudí, Ron Mueck, Red Grooms, Peter Doig, Francis Bacon, Lawren Harris, Franklin Carmichael, Egon Schiele, Christian Marclay.
The six things I could never do without
Not including all the obvious stuff (i.e. love, companionship,
etc.): something to read; something to write with; music; movies; coffee; the Times crossword puzzle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My current project; my next project; my family and friends; Boswell & Johnson; how to be a better person; what makes any artistic endeavor good, bad, meaningful, kitschy, offensive, timeless, or world-changing; how I would rewrite movies that seriously disappointed me; finding game in improv; sex; whether my cats enjoy my singing voice; whether this profile will appeal to you, you brilliant, gorgeous creature
On a typical Friday night I am
doing the kinds of things I do every other night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A writer/comedian I recently met online just performed a ten minute set about our one and only date to a packed house in Chelsea. I wasn't there, but I heard it was hilarious.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating