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45 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:55am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English, Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do. was a story about love, deception, greed, lust and…unbridled enthusiasm. You see, Billy was a simple country boy. You might say a cockeyed optimist, who got himself mixed up in the high stakes game of world diplomacy and international intrigue."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Slowing down a bit (ok, A LOT) from a previous bit of a 'wild' life. I still do like to go out and get some drinks now and then for sure, but there is way more to life, than JUST that.

Have (SUPER employable) degrees in fine art (though I still am active creating art),
religious studies (no NOT seminary, was definitely never a monk!...comparative studies), and electronics (yes NERD)... and somehow have a career that utilizes ZERO of all that education!... good job!....but does pay the bills

I played some music, so that whole "scene" is a part of my world as well, sorta....kind of getting a bit old for 30/40 somethings acting/living/making decisions like early 20 somethings.

I have a 14 yr old daughter who comes ABSOLUTELY first, I take the parenting thing pretty seriously, we're very very close. But I usually keep the kid very separate from my dating life, at least until things "might" become "serious" or whatever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Driving in reverse really fast

Chivalry, or so I am often told... seems common sense to me. Honestly I am a bit mystified by the stories I hear of other guys behaviors on here.

Pretty good swimmer.

Being interested in you, your life, your ambitions, your desires, your day, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to let me know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Joseph Campbell, Paulo Coelho, Bukowski, Brian Green, Philip K Dick, Umberto Ecco, etc etc.. Old Sci Fi, history, biography, physics stuff, Conan, Thor, blah blah blah (I always seem to have a few books going)

Movies: stupid funny, rad sci fi, other stuff, Jim Jarmusch, Wild at Heart, Terry Gilliam, am a total sucker for "love" movies like Upside Down, Safety Not Garanteed, and a bunch more

Music - The Clash, Lighting Hopkins, The Damned, Tom Waits, X, The Blasters, Motorhead, Dave Alvin, KnD, Public Enemy, Tosca, Orishas, Eric B & Rakim, a billion OLD blues guys n gals, Gene Vincent, old Soul, Reigning Sound, etc etc etc etc

Foodwise I eat a pretty "clean" diet, almost nothing processed, don't do the gluten thing (it SERIOUSLY works for me, so shut it), and I eat A LOT of meat (but also ALOT of veggies).... I don't have a problem with vegetarians, but if you have a problem with meat eaters this probably will not work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pizza in a cup, my thermos, oh and this chair.... and this paddle game thing, and boobs, but thats all, I don't need anything else
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not really this
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"I bet a fun thing would be to go way back in time to where there was going to be an eclipse and tell the cave men, "If I have come to destroy you, may the sun be blotted out from the sky." Just then the eclipse would start, and they'd probably try to kill you or something, but then you could explain about the rotation of the moon and all, and everyone would get a good laugh." - (if you can tell me who said this you rule)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm 100% deaf in my left ear
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Do not take yourself overly seriously, can laugh at life, and are genuine. You have a great wacky goofball sense of humor.

You DO 'active' STUFF (especially like to be on (or IN) the water. ESPECIALLY in tropical water!). Or even COLD water.... I just registered for the Escape From Alcatraz Sharkfest swim this coming august (2015).

Tend to have more in common with others who have had pretty wild pasts (but are slowing down). Being physically active/healthy and in some reasonable shape is important to me as that is a big deal in my life.

Also...can, in general, tell where I am serious, quoting something, or joking in this profile thingy...oh and NO CRAZY...and ABSOLUTELY NO liars... I am strictly monogamous and despise you if you are cheating on someone