Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you asked my friends they would probably say that I am a very
kind-hearted person who can always offer a sound piece of advice or
lend an ear. They might say I am very down to earth about practical
matters but very much a spit-fire and care-free spirit. Loyalty,
honesty, integrity, wisdom and a well formed moral compass are high
on my priority list.
I have been blessed to have learned some very important lessons in
life and I am confident about what I want, how to get it and what I
have to offer a partner, a friend and this world!
So, if you have read this far, then now you get the fun stuff! I am
extremely passionate and VERY sensual in every way and am looking
for someone who shares an equal amount of intensity. I am fiscally
responsible and conservative yet socially radical and I hope you
are the same (well, at least the responsible part)!
I hope you enjoy balance in life and that you have a philosophical
turn of mind. I hope that you can see the big picture and do not
get tied down by minutia. I hope that you aren't looking for
perfection and that you are reasonable about the ambiguous nature
of interpersonal relationships. I hope you are flexible, but
purposeful. I hope that you have a devilish sense of humor and find
that you laugh a lot. Most importantly I hope that you have a big,
warm and open heart, that you aren't afraid of showing love to
others whether it be for a minute in the check out line, an evening
over drinks or throughout a lifetime with your family.
Thanks for reading and good luck on your search!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved back to the area just over a year ago after living in New
York City for 18 years. I was part private running coach &
personal trainer, part opera singer. Now I am a fitness consultant
and revisiting my musical background in classical music and opera.
Lastly, this will make some of you run, but I have to be honest: I
am looking to meet someone who, like me, is open to creating a
family together! That is where I am in my life!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Relating to others and setting people at ease. I am good at day
dreaming, cooking- alone or with friends, listening to music (live
or recorded) or making my own. I am really good at listening to
anyone and mediating when troubles arise. I am good at building
team comraderie (I am terrible at spelling). I am very good at
spending time by myself. I am great with math, numbers and science
(but I am awful with grammar).
I am amazing at making the special person in my life feel like the
only person in the universe. I love to spoil and cherish my
partner. It can boarder on devotion, but in a good way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile or my eyes are usually the first things people comment on,
however, I am fairly spunky, so perhaps that is what got their
attention in the first place.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Off the top of my head:
Books: The Dancing Wu Li Masters, Awaken to Superconsciousness,
Perfect Health, Ultrametabolism, The Art of Chart Interpretation,
Chi Running, Total Immersion and The Alchemist.
Music performers and compositions: Verdi's Otello & La
Traviata, Bach's suites for solo cello, Maria Callas, Joni
Mitchell's Court and Spark, Nick Drake's Bryter Layter, David
Bowie, Sade, Pearl Jam, Led Zeppelin, Coltrane, Davis, Amy
Winehouse and Joan Armatrading just to name a few.
Food: All international foods, Gaucamole and french fries!
Shows: Law & Order SVU (I miss NYC!) Chelsea Lately, Vice &
Movies: Amadeus, What the Bleep Do We Know and Limitless.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I know that it is cliche but I think a lot right now about what
gifts have I been given and how can I use those to make the world a
better place or to improve the lives of others. Am I in strict
adherence to my moral code through my conduct and my beliefs and my
words? Seriously. I think about how desire is the source of all
suffering but without it I find it hard to find motivation. I think
about gratitude. I think about how much of an illusion our daily
existence really seems to be. I think about how short life is and
what can I do to maximize the experience!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I am in on Friday nights, catching up from the busy work
week and preparing for an even busier weekend to come (I work on
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love that melancholy time of early evening, usually just before
dusk. I like the feeling I get at that time of day of being a
little blue yet serene and tranquil.
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