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38 Enfield, NH Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 13
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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If you asked my friends they would probably say that I am a very kind-hearted person who can always offer a sound piece of advice or lend an ear. They might say I am very down to earth about practical matters but very much a spit-fire and care-free spirit. Loyalty, honesty, integrity, wisdom and a well formed moral compass are high on my priority list.

I have been blessed to have learned some very important lessons in life and I am confident about what I want, how to get it and what I have to offer a partner, a friend and this world!

So, if you have read this far, then now you get the fun stuff! I am extremely passionate and VERY sensual in every way and am looking for someone who shares an equal amount of intensity. I am fiscally responsible and conservative yet socially radical and I hope you are the same (well, at least the responsible part)!

I hope you enjoy balance in life and that you have a philosophical turn of mind. I hope that you can see the big picture and do not get tied down by minutia. I hope that you aren't looking for perfection and that you are reasonable about the ambiguous nature of interpersonal relationships. I hope you are flexible, but purposeful. I hope that you have a devilish sense of humor and find that you laugh a lot. Most importantly I hope that you have a big, warm and open heart, that you aren't afraid of showing love to others whether it be for a minute in the check out line, an evening over drinks or throughout a lifetime with your family.

Thanks for reading and good luck on your search!
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved back to the area just over two years ago after living in New York City for 18 years. I was part private running coach & personal trainer, part opera singer. Now I am a fitness consultant and revisiting my musical background in classical music & opera. I am also playing around with some entrepreneurial ideas. I grew up around here and it is literally such a breath of fresh air to be back!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Relating to others and setting people at ease. I am good at day dreaming, cooking- alone or with friends, listening to music (live or recorded) or making my own. I am really good at listening to anyone and mediating when troubles arise. I am good at building team camaraderie (I am terrible at spelling). I am very good at spending time by myself. I am great with math, numbers and science (but I am awful with grammar).

I am amazing at making the special person in my life feel like the only person in the universe. I love to spoil and cherish my partner. It can boarder on devotion, but in a good way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile or my eyes are usually the first things people comment on, however, I am fairly spunky, so perhaps that is what got their attention in the first place.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Off the top of my head:

Books: The Dancing Wu Li Masters, Awaken to Superconsciousness, Perfect Health, Ultrametabolism, The Art of Chart Interpretation, Chi Running, Total Immersion and The Alchemist.

Music performers and compositions: Verdi's Otello & La Traviata, Bach's suites for solo cello, Maria Callas, Joni Mitchell's Court and Spark, Nick Drake's Bryter Layter, David Bowie, Sade, Pearl Jam, Led Zeppelin, Coltrane, Davis, Amy Winehouse and Joan Armatrading just to name a few.

Food: All international foods, Gaucamole and french fries!

Shows: Law & Order SVU (I miss NYC!) Chelsea Lately, Vice & Chopped

Movies: Amadeus, What the Bleep Do We Know and Limitless.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & Family
Yummy Food

Alone time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Keeping it simple.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I am in on Friday nights, catching up from the busy work week and preparing for an even busier weekend to come (I work on weekends)!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love that melancholy time of early evening, usually just before dusk. I like the feeling I get at that time of day of being a little blue yet serene and tranquil.
You should message me if
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If you feel like it!