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36 F Norwich, VT

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If you asked my friends they would probably say that I am a very kind-hearted person who can always offer a sound piece of advice or lend an ear. They would say I am very down to earth about practical matters but very much a spit-fire and care-free spirit. Loyalty and honesty are high on my priority list.

Like all of us, I don't like when friendships, relationships, jobs, anything in life for that matter, get stale. Rather than abandoning ship I prefer to work on refreshing, renewing or transforming the mundane state. So I guess you could say that I am not a quitter, and that I am definitely not a settler.

I also have learned some very important lessons in life and feel (although I know there are more to come) I am confident about what I want from life, how to get it and what I have to offer a partner, a friend and this world!

So, if you have read this far, then now you get the fun stuff! I love to explore, to take risks and to go on spontaneous and planned adventures. I am extremely passionate and VERY sensual in every way and am looking for someone who shares an equal amount of intensity. I am fiscally responsible and conservative yet socially radical and I hope you are the same (well, at least the responsible part)!

I hope you enjoy balance in life and that you have a philosophical turn of mind. I hope that you can see the big picture and do not get tied down by minutia. I hope that you aren't looking for perfection and that you are reasonable about the ambiguous nature of interpersonal relationships. I hope you are flexible, but purposeful. I hope that you have a devilish sense of humor and find that you laugh a lot. Most importantly I hope that you have a big, warm and open heart, that you aren't afraid of showing love to others whether it be for a minute at the cash register, an evening over drinks or throughout a lifetime with your family.

Thanks for reading and good luck on your search!
What I’m doing with my life
I moved back to Vermont in June after living in New York City for 18 years. I was part private running coach & personal trainer, part opera singer. Now I am a fitness consultant and revisiting my musical background in classical music and opera. I am getting back into shape after a pretty severe medical life event/loss that happened in August. I can talk more about this off of my profile, but don't worry, I am almost back 100% and will be stronger as a result and certainly wiser. And a full recovery is assured. This has inspired me to start developing my meditation practice and to pick up my yoga practice again after a several year long hiatus. Lastly, this will make some of you run, but I have to be honest: I am ready to meet someone who, like me, is ready to start the adventure of creating a family together! That is where I am in my life!
I’m really good at
Relating to others. I am really good at helping people to achieve their personal fitness goals while avoiding injury. I am good at day dreaming, cooking alone or with friends, listening to music (live or recorded) or making my own. I am really good at listening to anyone and mediating when troubles arise. I am good at building team comraderie (I am terrible at spelling). I am very good at spending time by myself. I am great with math, numbers and science (but I am awful with grammar).

I am amazing at making the special person in my life feel like the only person in the universe. I love to spoil and cherish my partner. It can boarder on worship, but in a good way.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile or my eyes are usually the first things people comment on, however, I am fairly spunky, so perhaps that is what got their attention in the first place.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Off the top of my head:

Books: The Dancing Wu Li Masters, Awaken to Superconsciousness, Perfect Health, Ultrametabolism, The Art of Chart Interpretation, Chi Running, Total Immersion and The Alchemist.

Music performers and compositions: Verdi's Otello & La Traviata, Bach's suites for solo cello, Maria Callas, Joni Mitchell's Court and Spark, Nick Drake's Bryter Layter, David Bowie, Sade, Pearl Jam, Led Zeppelin, Coltrane, Davis, Amy Winehouse and Joan Armatrading just to name a few.

Food: All international foods, Gaucamole and french fries!

Shows: Law & Order SVU (I miss NYC!) Chelsea Lately, Vice & Chopped

Movies: Amadeus, What the Bleep Do We Know and Limitless.
The six things I could never do without
The Great Outdoors
Friend & Family
Home Cooked Meals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I know that it is cliche but I think a lot right now about what gifts have I been given and how can I use those to make the world a better place or to improve the life of someone else. How can I more consistently live authentically? Am I in strict adherence to my moral code through my conduct, not just my words? Seriously. I think about how desire is the source of all suffering but without it I find it hard to find motivation. I am careful not to get caught up in meaningless distractions: ie the rat race, what's hot and whose not, who cut me off in line at the grocery store. At least I try. I try to remember what I am grateful for. I think about how much of an illusion our daily existence really seems to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually I am in on Friday nights, catching up from the busy work week and preparing for an even busier weekend to come!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love that melancholy time of early evening, usually just before dusk. I like the feeling I get at that time of day of being a little blue yet serene and tranquil.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you feel like it!