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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 17
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've been in the city for a little more than a year at this point. Even though I love it, I'm still astounded that I still haven't even heard of half of the bars, restaurants, etc. that my friends mention. But I'm getting better. The upside is that there's still tons to explore.

I tend to be pretty gregarious and outgoing once I've met people, but I'm usually reluctant to be the first person to strike up a conversation. My humor tends to be witty/sarcastic. Although my friends have all sorts of different personalities, I usually do better in relationships in which the other guy is more relaxed and/or has a calming influence on me.

General interests: I'm a religious runner; a more casual cyclist; a fan of baseball, football, and tennis; an arts enthusiast; a coffee and beer connoisseur (OK, fine: snob); an avid traveler; and something of a political junky.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just started teaching law school and love it. I'm still trying to learn the city (but so far, so good). And I can't figure out what my next running goal should be, but I'll get that sorted out soon enough. Right now, those are enough to keep me occupied for the short- and medium-terms.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
running, foreign languages, making pancakes (not hard, but my friends are always impressed), being a good friend - I should probably add "law" to the list if that's what I'm teaching, right?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmm, I guess my eyes and my wit. (People don't typically mention what they notice first.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: pretty much anything by Dostoevsky and Kafka; I've also been reading a fair number of political biographies recently, and I've enjoyed almost all of them.

Movies: I enjoy movies, but I'm not a huge film buff. Kudos to Netflix for helping me catch up on some of the classics that my friends chastise me for not having seen.

TV: Dexter, Mad Men, Modern Family

music: my favorite Pandora stations are classical stations, Green Day, and Queen

food: Thai, Italian, Tex-Mex, but when I'm hungry (which is often) I'm not very picky
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
(1) coffee
(2) loved ones (family and friends)
(3) my super-comfortable bed
(4) running shoes
(5) sun (it improves my mood by leaps and bounds)
(6) words with more than three syllables (at a party, a friend challenged me to use words with no more than three syllables; I basically sat around in silence)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where this whole academic thing is taking me (and, at the moment, the upcoming election)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm not sure that there's a typical Friday for me. Sometimes I like going out with friends, bar-hopping or going to a concert, and just soaking up New York. Other times, I'm happy to ease into my recliner with a good meal and the latest delivery from Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a running commentary going on in my head. After two beers, I'll probably admit a lot more stuff than that.
You should message me if
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Delete the "if," and the sentence works.

I am usually attracted to guys who are thin and/or athletic with good smiles and a well-developed sense of humor. Beyond that, surprise me.