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35 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I am looking for a good decent guy. Never know where and how you will meet "the one". This site is new to me, but my friend met someone very special & great on this site, and I thought I would give it a try.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am looking for a White, Single, serious, professional, intelligent, successful, highly-educated man, who wants to share his life with a woman who is educated, professional, world-traveler, sweet, romantic, passionate, kind, family-oriented and loyal. I am 5’6”, 120 lbs, with long blond hair and green eyes. Most people find me attractive. I take care of myself, my health, and my appearance.

I am university-educated with a Master's degree, and I speak 3 languages. I enjoy traveling to warm, exotic places - I love to relax on the beach. I am from Europe and like visiting various countries in Europe. I’ve been to many foreign countries, but of course, there is no place like home! I love the Bay Area, going to San Francisco, to the Wine Country visiting wineries and wine-tasting, to the beaches of Carmel, Santa Cruz, Capitola, etc. I enjoy the SF City life and performing arts - Opera, Ballet, Symphony, dancing. I hope you enjoy fine wine, romantic dinners, and pleasant conversation.

I like to spend time with family and friends, sharing food, laughs, enjoying each other’s company, and having a great time. I am very close to my family. I am comfortable at the A-list parties, having dinner and conversation at the table with the exec’s, as well as by the fireplace, on the couch watching movies, and cuddling. I am looking for a happy, stable family-oriented environment, for companionship, friendship and a passionate, loving relationship with a man, who is reliable, stable, honest, caring, kind, a good provider, takes care of his appearance and health, and is a gentleman, who knows how to treat a lady, and whom I would have great chemistry with, and who is looking to share his life and to be happy.

If you would like to make a connection, please send an email to say "Hello". NO 50+year-olds please! I could be your daughter. Not interested. I have lived in CA 20 years now & do not need a green card. Also, men with tattoos and without college education, please do not bother, we would not be a match, we would not have much in common. Also, I am into WHITE men specifically for a relationship; all others I can only be nice friends with, sorry, but look for your own kind. Thank you.
I’m really good at
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Decorating, cooking and wine-pairing, finding fun things to do on weekends, scheduling road trips, keeping in touch with family and friends, remembering special occasions :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and that I am friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like watching comedies, romantic comedies, documentaries, action moves. I enjoy fine dining and like to try new restaurants, both in SF and locally. I enjoy SF Opera, SF Ballet, concerts, dancing, art galleries, city life, music and arts. I am a certified sommelier for fun.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
Learning & growing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That our time on Earth is limited, and that it would be great to have a fun, joyful, and happy journey while here, and share it with someone great.
And: are there any fit, hot, smart men out there?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner out, at the movies, or maybe in SF at a fun event with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You would like to find a life partner but you are also open to having fun and making good friends along the way. If you are a good guy looking for a lasting long-term relationship and friendship. If you are NOT over 50 years old, and if you are WHITE, Single, Smart, and Serious. Non-qualifying men, please do not waste yours and my time to message me just to say "hello" or to be a "penpal" or "convo buddy" - please do not clog up my email inbox, use your time wisely. 25-year-old boys looking for a "sugar mama" or someone to babysit you, pls do not contact me. Men from other states, or 100 mls away - pls do NOT bother. 60+year-old grandpas, pls do not lie that you are 49 - steer clear, you are not my type. 40+year-old men still living in apartments with roommates, or on your friend's boat: college life is over, you just forgot to grow up & become responsible - please do not bother me.