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30 Aurora, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly anything
Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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"A change of life is hard to find, when there is no piece of mind".
What I’m doing with my life
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Achieving my goals, one day at a time. Attained my BS in Healthcare Management and Recently transitioned to the Aurora/Warrenville area to accomodate for my role in Lisle, Illinois as a medical business analyst. Its fulfilling this role is actually in my undergrad field. Kind of rare these days. I also still work part time, in downtown Chicago for a wine and spirits company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
filling out online dating profiles....and sarcasm
The first things people usually notice about me
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eyes, physique, intuition, how genuine I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoy stephen king in terms of authors, jurassic park also one of my favorite books, civil war as well.

Tv shows... Friends, Seinfeld, classic shows on netflix binges mostly. Also enjoy forensic crime shows....ID channel is quite interesting.

movies....long list....enjoy pretty much everything....some favorites are shawshank redemption, training day, stand by me, man on fire, dumb and dumber, the bourne series, the dark knight saga.....etc.

culinary ventures are becoming more common in my life, eclectic ethnic foods. Big fan of cajun, italian, and mexican dishes. Also huge into the craft beer scene.

Music....very nostalgic most of the time...such as the beatles, 90s alternative, etc. Also enjoy some rap, country and classic rock.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
adventure, exercise/staying active, a pet, family/friends, a good book, ambition, love....thats 7....oh well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life and its purpose......also random things such as:

-why married people still feel the need to have a profile on a site such as this?
-what if for one day, in an entire 24 hour period, everyone committed a thoughtful, selfless act for another human being?
-why everyone seems to be in such a chaotic state when it comes to being with someone? Were either settling, or letting emotional connections dictate our realistic decisions. And in that we wonder why there is confusion? hmm. Chemistry with someone is an emotional feeling/process, however Compatibility is logical. Sometimes that is a hard road to navigate.
-Lastly, in terms of dating in the 21st century...I feel I gave a good friend of mine some real solid advice the other day, and its something I have integrated into my thought process and dating life. This friend of mine is someone who isint "good with women" according to him and was a bit frazzled by a few negative dates he had been on. Among other tidbits of advice and comfort offered, I said the following to him:

"We all tend to over analyze dating, especially the first one with someone new. This is magnified when this new individual actually interests you. We get neurotic, paranoid, constantly thinking "what do I say, what is she thinking", ect. When all the while she is following the very same process in her head towards you. Dating, for the most part, is truly seeing if you and another individual not only match up in terms of physical chemistry, interests, values, ect, but also to see if an emotional connection can be formed. In other words, what can this person offer me? Or what COULD he/she do that is unique? Instead of meandering along the whole initial first date, worrying and analyzing whether or not you are good enough for her, why dont you sit down and take her thoughts in, and figure out if SHE is good enough for YOU and your standards, values, and desires. Through that you will totally see dating and connection through a different perspective, and start attracting the RIGHT people for you".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
drinking the week away (insert sarcasm since this seems to be taken literally)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I were to admit a certain aspect about myself, then how "private" would it really be?
You should message me if
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You're sane. You're at a place in life where your secure with who you are and are confident in that fact. Most importantly, if you're over the games and desire something, real, genuine, and of substance.