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Ryan1138

21 / M / straight / Single

Mesa, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
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Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am constructive, intense, and motivated.

My Self-Summary

About Me:
My name is Ryan and I am not your typical male. I disdain sports, alcohol, and cheap women. I am not interested in sex on the first or even the second date. I am far more interested in learning about you. I want to learn about your day-to-day, your opinions, your goals in life. I want to share mine with someone who shows genuine interest in what I am saying. I am more of a listener than a talker, but I speak volumes when I do.

To me, honesty and respect are not merely cornerstones of a relationship, they are bastions of life itself. I spend each day emulating these qualities and I expect those I encounter to embody them in turn. Do not waste my time if these are not values you hold dear. I am only interested in meeting anyone of like mind.

I am a nerd. I'm attending ASU/MCC in pursuit of a computer science degree. I enjoy Dungeons and Dragons and Chess. My greatest love is acadamia and I look to science to answer the questions others look to faith for.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm going to Arizona State University seeking my bachelors degree in computer science. I work part-time for a defense contractor that manufactures night vison goggles.

I’m really good at

Math, the sciences, listening

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love the fantasy and scifi genre of books, movies, and tv shows. Stargate is one of my favorite shows. I love American and Mexican food.

The six things I could never do without

Calculator, the internet, friends, family, and air.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Theoretical physics

On a typical Friday night I am

Gaming with my friends in a table-top rpg.

You should message me if

You find me interesting.