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40 M Austin, TX

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm assuming you know why I am here, it is a dating site after all. But to be more specific, I am looking for a sexy co-pilot. If I meet someone who is great, just for fun and awesome chemistry that is wonderful. I am human and I crave companionship, but it needs to be with a woman who is comfortable with herself, affectionate and fun, why? Because that is me also ;-). I'm not perfect. I tend to have very diverse, controversial, but kind friends. I like things a little different and non-vanilla. I've been in Austin now for almost 5 yrs. There have been great positive changes in my life, and it has been a great time to learn and grow. I will do that all my life, but this place has my heart.

If you want to read the rest of this, please do. I note stuff down here, as people like to know details and that is all below, but in the end, I want to find someone I can have fun and explore with. This does not have to be all that serious at the start. Let's adventure, and enjoy the chemistry and passion. After that we can figure it out.

I am a communicator, and adventurer. I spend a lot of time hiking. A few years ago I got back to my old Boy Scout roots and began spending more time in the woods. I go on a camping trip twice a year with friends, and I tend to spend time at the green belt or the wooded area behind where I live to exercise and just get in the sun.

I am a former employee of a major video game company so I enjoy games and people I can play with, but it does not rule my life. It is one of many hobbies I like writing, reading, and community service. I am usually the person in my group who organizes outings and brings people together for a good time. I have no blood family here in TX so my friends have become that and I am very close to them. When I go out on the town I tend to do east six or a local pub on South Lamar or Congress.

I take care of myself. I love to cook and while it may be healthy or not, I like to be in the kitchen. Cooking is therapeutic for me. I cook for myself and friends. Perhaps we can make something together? Cooking together can be very sexy. I co-founded a non-profit and my Sunday afternoons are usually spent gathering data, updating our website and face book page, as well as organizing fund raising events. It is still very new and it is very exciting.

I am looking for who shares my ability to communicate. Is not afraid to put themselves out there. Who not only takes care of themselves physically but mentally also. For me, chemistry is someone who I am not only attracted to, but provides conversation, plans things out for us to do with me. I am looking for companionship, with a woman who is comfortable with herself, affectionate and fun, why? Because that is me also ;-). I mesh best with women who are, liberal, a little earthy, nerdy, not afraid to get her hands dirty, has an alternative look at life, and is a giving individual emotionally. While I have my own thing going on, I like to have a strong bond.

While I like to adventure, I want someone I can also just spend time with at home, watching a good flick, vegging out enjoying each other’s company and just joking around. Not everything has to be a big event.

I would be happy to find a great life partner, but I am in no rush and I hold no expectations. If I find a friend with benefits that would be fine, we all need someone to connect with. I like to just enjoy and learn about each other, if things happen, it will naturally. Let's go see a band, have some drinks at a local pub with friends, see a movie, go camping, play some pool or video games, go on trips, have amazing adventurous sex, play in the rain, stay in and snuggle to great movies, or make a tree house! There is so much to do, I love exploring and I want to know what you like. Eventually, I want to meet a woman I can settle around with. That's right, I said settle around. Finding a great partner should not be boring. If we are both active participants communicating and spending time with each other doing things this should not be difficult. For now, I am enjoying life, and doing my part to accept what the universe throws at me as I do my best to influence it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Last I checked, working my ass off at a job I love.

Going on adventures like camping, hiking staying fit, partying, traveling, fooding, and gaming.

Adding more passion.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Honest
Board games
Thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, laugh, or I don't sound like the stereotypical black male.
I have great life stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a bit of a techno-hippy. My likes can be an interesting combination of science and math to nature and sustainable living.

My books are mostly Fantasy or more alternative thinking concepts.

Song of Ice and Fire
Wayfarer Redemption

I love entertainment but not a fan of TV. I will watch it at another persons house, but I hate commercials and the forced process of TV. I watch everything on Netflix, the internet connected to my TV or the movies.

I will name 4 movies only. I don't want to go down a list, but they will also give you an incite to my personality and imagination.

1. Serenity
2. The Secretary
3. Inception.
4. Seven
5. Firefly

Adventure Time
Breaking Bad
Game of Thrones

80's, 90's hip hop (I like some but most of todays Rap, Hip Hop is kinda sucky except for some dance music.)
Pure 80's

I love music. I am not the person who will know the name of this band or that band though as I am not star struck. I just love being in it. I also am deep in all kinds of music.

As for food my favorite has to be most Asian foods. It may be from all the time I spent in Southern California. I love sushi, Chinese you name it, and I am very happy at eating very authentic foods. I am not a picky either though I try to stay healthy without missing out. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Night life

Don't worry I can count. I just don't care :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world. This is why I started a non profit. There is so much wrong going on and I try to make a small difference. I know I live in TX, but I really don't like to support major league Football (it's so big here, or most major league sports.) How can people pay so much money for tickets to events and fun the ridiculous salaries athletes make when teachers get paid crap, we still have homeless on the streets, etc etc. There is so much we could have fixed already and we have thrown it all away.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
From time to time I will throw theme parties at the home I share with a friend in South Austin. We have drinks, make a community dinner with a ton of fun. I have quite a few close friends I have met here and love to spend time on the town with.

Karaoke or a local dive bar. Good dinner and drinks.

I get my geek out every other Sunday night where I play D&D with a group of guys and girls up north. You get points for not freaking out over that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some people think I am a total boy scout. I separate my private life and work live very well. I am not.

I can be pretty shy sometimes.

I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a good, honest woman. (Not too good :-)

You are open with your feelings, and have an open heart. I want to meet someone who is excited about me.

You want someone to talk to and get to know.

I am very liberal and do not take it negativly if a woman contacts me first.

If you are this type of woman:

Care to play Million Dollar Pyramid?

Right wingers...
Religious zealots...
.......THINGS THAT TURN RYAN OFF! (Correct!)

The out doors...
Defying social norms...
Geek Culture...
........THINGS RYAN LOVES! (Correct!)

FunFunFun Fest...
Playing games...
Bar Hopping...

Where bible sales go...
Why do we drive on the park way and park on the drive way...
What does the fox say...
........THINGS RYAN DOESN'T KNOW! (Correct!)

If you would like to continue to play, please feel free to say hello :-)