Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I approach women. I don't chase girls.
I want to meet a woman I can fall passionately in love with, share
all our thoughts, have a beautiful life together living our days in
bliss. But it's not essential for my happiness, and I am wise
enough to know that these things come when they come, searching for
them will not help. So in the meantime I am looking for a lover,
somebody to make me laugh, to spend a night or a weekend with,
maybe go out with from time to time, to eat or to dance, have some
great sex, and make each other feel good. And if it turns out
you're the one to make me fall for you great! because that is what
I really want. If not, well hello anyway. :-)
I am not a party animal. Or rather, I am, but not very often. When
I party I do it in style and til the break of dawn, but I much
prefer to read a book, make some amazing dinner at home, or find a
nice trail to hike. Have any better ideas?
I have traveled all over Europe and the U.S. and I have been
exposed to a lot of different cultures having lived in the homes of
a ton of host families. I used to work with inner city kids for
years. After years of Psychology and social work, I have now become
an Amazing people manager. I did this in the video game industry
for years and years but broke out some time ago. It is interesting
where life takes you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am about people. People who get to know me realize I am about
being positive. Everywhere I have traveled I have somehow been
involved with my community. I work to help the people around me. I
am loyal to my friends/family and look out for people at work to
ensure they know their rights.
I've taken this further in other parts of my life working with
inner city kids at one point, traveling abroad in host families
doing community work, all the way to the non-profit I just started
to help the homeless here in Austin. That is my passion. I just
strive to be a good person, but I am not judgmental and I want all
people to have great lives as long as they are not hurting
This is a place I hope to find someone for myself. Where I can have
fun and it would be nice to have someone who wants to dote on me as
much as I do them. This, and share the other spices of life.
While I may be a big geek in many aspects, I am very close to
nature. I like to go on a camping retreat twice a year with my
friends. I love to hike and be outside when I can stand the heat. I
used to be very outdoorsy from my east coast origins. I miss my
time on the Appalachian trail and I have spent a little bit of time
on the Rockies.
Great community of friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, laugh, or I don't sound like the stereotypical black
I have great life stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a bit of a techno-hippy. My likes can be an interesting
combination of science and math to nature and sustainable
My books are mostly Fantasy or more alternative thinking
Song of Ice and Fire
I love entertainment but not a fan of TV. I will watch it at
another persons house, but I hate commercials and the forced
process of TV. I watch everything on Netflix, the internet
connected to my TV or the movies.
I will name 5 movies only. I don't want to go down a list, but they
will also give you an incite to my personality and
2. The Secretary
Game of Thrones
80's, 90's hip hop (I like some but most of todays Rap, Hip Hop is
kinda sucky except for some dance music.)
Dave Cheppelle (still a great)
As for food my favorite has to be most Asian foods. It may be from
all the time I spent in Southern California. I love sushi, Chinese,
you name it, and I am very happy eating very authentic foods. I am
not a picky eater but I try to stay healthy without missing out. I
love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Its more about what I want than what I need. I dont need much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world. This is why I started a non profit. There is so much
wrong going on and I try to make a small difference. I know I live
in TX, but I really don't like to support major league Football and
major league sports. How can people pay so much money for tickets
to events and fund the ridiculous salaries athletes make when
teachers get paid crap, we still have homeless on the streets, etc
etc. There is so much we could have fixed already and we have
thrown it all away.
How being a male feminist can be such a drag and how sexism is a
vicious circle of no bueno to both genders.
“Well, I must endure the presence of a few caterpillars if I wish
to become acquainted with the butterflies.”
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
From time to time I will throw theme gatherings at the home I share
with a friend in South Austin. We have drinks, make a community
dinner with a ton of fun. I have quite a few close friends I have
met here in Austin, that I love to spend time on the town
Karaoke or a local dive bar.
At home reading or chilling with a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ENFJ former INTJ. I am now an introvert/extrovert. No one gets
Traveled with a musical group back in the day.
Looking for more than just a pretty face.
I love animals, but none of them in the pictures are mine.
I recently died and came back to life.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you are a feminist an enlightened woman
and don't mind messaging a man first. While I don't mind contacting
people, it is refreshing to be engaged by a woman who can approach
me as an equal when they see interest. And it says nothing negative
about you if you message a guy first. That is some old school shit
that need to be put away with all the blue laws.
You want someone to talk to and get to know.
Care to play Million Dollar Pyramid?
.......THINGS THAT TURN RYAN OFF! (Correct!)
The out doors...
Defying social norms...
........THINGS RYAN LOVES! (Correct!)
........THINGS RYAN LIKES TO SHARE WITH A SIGNIFICANT OTHER!
Where bible sales go...
Why do we drive on the park way and park on the drive way...
........THINGS RYAN DOESN'T KNOW! (Correct!)
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