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41 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I approach women. I don't chase girls.

I want to meet a woman I can fall passionately in love with, share all our thoughts, have a beautiful life together living our days in bliss. But it's not essential for my happiness, and I am wise enough to know that these things come when they come, searching for them will not help. So in the meantime I am looking for a lover, somebody to make me laugh, to spend a night or a weekend with, maybe go out with from time to time, to eat or to dance, have some great sex, and make each other feel good. And if it turns out you're the one to make me fall for you great! because that is what I really want. If not, well hello anyway. :-)

I am not a party animal. Or rather, I am, but not very often. When I party I do it in style and til the break of dawn, but I much prefer to read a book, make some amazing dinner at home, or find a nice trail to hike. Have any better ideas?

I have traveled all over Europe and the U.S. and I have been exposed to a lot of different cultures having lived in the homes of a ton of host families. I used to work with inner city kids for years. After years of Psychology and social work, I have now become an Amazing people manager. I did this in the video game industry for years and years but broke out some time ago. It is interesting where life takes you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am about people. People who get to know me realize I am about being positive. Everywhere I have traveled I have somehow been involved with my community. I work to help the people around me. I am loyal to my friends/family and look out for people at work to ensure they know their rights.

I've taken this further in other parts of my life working with inner city kids at one point, traveling abroad in host families doing community work, all the way to the non-profit I just started to help the homeless here in Austin. That is my passion. I just strive to be a good person, but I am not judgmental and I want all people to have great lives as long as they are not hurting others.

This is a place I hope to find someone for myself. Where I can have fun and it would be nice to have someone who wants to dote on me as much as I do them. This, and share the other spices of life.

While I may be a big geek in many aspects, I am very close to nature. I like to go on a camping retreat twice a year with my friends. I love to hike and be outside when I can stand the heat. I used to be very outdoorsy from my east coast origins. I miss my time on the Appalachian trail and I have spent a little bit of time on the Rockies.


Great community of friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Honest
Board games
Thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, laugh, or I don't sound like the stereotypical black male.
I have great life stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a bit of a techno-hippy. My likes can be an interesting combination of science and math to nature and sustainable living.

My books are mostly Fantasy or more alternative thinking concepts.

Song of Ice and Fire
Wayfarer Redemption

I love entertainment but not a fan of TV. I will watch it at another persons house, but I hate commercials and the forced process of TV. I watch everything on Netflix, the internet connected to my TV or the movies.

I will name 5 movies only. I don't want to go down a list, but they will also give you an incite to my personality and imagination.

1. Serenity
2. The Secretary
3. Inception.
4. Seven
5. Firefly

Adventure Time
Broad City
Breaking Bad
Game of Thrones

80's, 90's hip hop (I like some but most of todays Rap, Hip Hop is kinda sucky except for some dance music.)
Pure 80's

Louie C.K.
Dave Cheppelle (still a great)
Crazy animation

As for food my favorite has to be most Asian foods. It may be from all the time I spent in Southern California. I love sushi, Chinese, you name it, and I am very happy eating very authentic foods. I am not a picky eater but I try to stay healthy without missing out. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Its more about what I want than what I need. I dont need much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world. This is why I started a non profit. There is so much wrong going on and I try to make a small difference. I know I live in TX, but I really don't like to support major league Football and major league sports. How can people pay so much money for tickets to events and fund the ridiculous salaries athletes make when teachers get paid crap, we still have homeless on the streets, etc etc. There is so much we could have fixed already and we have thrown it all away.

How being a male feminist can be such a drag and how sexism is a vicious circle of no bueno to both genders.

“Well, I must endure the presence of a few caterpillars if I wish to become acquainted with the butterflies.”
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
From time to time I will throw theme gatherings at the home I share with a friend in South Austin. We have drinks, make a community dinner with a ton of fun. I have quite a few close friends I have met here in Austin, that I love to spend time on the town with.

Karaoke or a local dive bar.
At home reading or chilling with a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
ENFJ former INTJ. I am now an introvert/extrovert. No one gets me.

Traveled with a musical group back in the day.

Looking for more than just a pretty face.

I love animals, but none of them in the pictures are mine.

I recently died and came back to life.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you are a feminist an enlightened woman and don't mind messaging a man first. While I don't mind contacting people, it is refreshing to be engaged by a woman who can approach me as an equal when they see interest. And it says nothing negative about you if you message a guy first. That is some old school shit that need to be put away with all the blue laws.

You want someone to talk to and get to know.

Care to play Million Dollar Pyramid?

Right wingers...
Religious zealots...
.......THINGS THAT TURN RYAN OFF! (Correct!)

The out doors...
Defying social norms...
Geek Culture...
........THINGS RYAN LOVES! (Correct!)

FunFunFun Fest...
Playing games...
Bar Hopping...
Great food

Where bible sales go...
Why do we drive on the park way and park on the drive way...
........THINGS RYAN DOESN'T KNOW! (Correct!)

If you would like to continue to play, please feel free to say hello :-)