I am 29 turning 30 in August, dirty blonde short hair, usually sporting a goatee, blue eyes 160ilbs average build. I work for a resturant as a chef, and while i may not be proud of my job i am content due to my current situation. I find pride more in life itself than in the "success" of a career. I live in the Springfield area and have been single for a few years now by choice. Had a few rough long-term relationships and spent a few years now looking for someone i can relate to. I am not looking for a girl who goes to the clubs or raves as I have moved on from that part of my life and looking for someone who likes to spend one on one time. The most important thing you can ever give anyone is your time, because its so important and you can never have it back. I smoke, however not cigarettes or any form of tabbacco. Not a dull headed smoker however, i use it more for concentration and as a stress reliever. If you have questions on anything else im pretty open about my life so just message me.

Most people mention my eyes. I also am told i am very understanding and accepting person and i like to pride myself in being honest.

For books i prefer non-fiction. I usually like to read about history, politics, and new age spiritualism. I love to just relax and watch movies, i own too many to count and have a wide genre. Mostly i love comedy but i will watch anything. For TV i watch The office, walking dead, the league, always sunny, key and peele, breaking bad, community. Music i am a old school rap fan; Nas, 2Pac, Biggie, Fugees to name some of my faves and a new one i like is Pho'. I love 90s R&B, anything from Boyz 2 men, 112, Dru Hill, R Kelly, Jodeci, Shai, Ne-Yo, Lauryn Hill, Alicia Keys....I also like some rock, White Stripes and anything Jack White does, Gotta love the beatles, Led Zepplin, Oasis, Radiohead...

Your interested to talk and find out more.