i am a deep thinker. i try hard to be kind to everyone. sometimes i fail miserably... but most of the time i succeed. i love to be young hearted and silly and playful... but i can also be very mindful and serious. i like having conversations about people and behavior and life and existence... because i am in a constant state of trying to make sense of it all. i have what i think is a great sense of humor... it can be peculiar and odd at times, but of course i think i am hilarious.

i guess i am here for the same reasons a lot of people are... to possibly meet someone. i am not really looking to meet a girl in a bar, where i work doesnt lend to me meeting girls, and i am not in school right now where i could possibly meet someone... so with the advice of some friends who question why i am not with someone... i decided to try this out.

i work on an adolescent behavioral health unit. i work with teenagers and little kids, these days i prefer the little ones. a lot of people find my job interesting... and it can be, to say the least. i have learned a lot of amazing and beautiful things about individuals and sadly a lot of horrible and disheartening things about humanity while working here.

i have been playing guitar for almost 18 years. i am into photography and have a decent camera that i am wanting to explore the art more with. i am good at listening... i am good at making people feel very welcome and comfortable around me. i am good at analyzing just about anything and everything.

my ability to make you feel comfortable around me... my shyness that is disguised as extroversion.

i am very passionate about the movies and music i am into. i am into serious intellectual movies usually. there will be blood is one of my all time favorites if that gives you and idea. Tree of Life, Melancholia, Take Shelter, Another Earth are some of my recent favorites. Lost is my favorite tv show, but i like shows like the office, its always sunny in philadelphia, arrested development, breaking bad, and workaholics.

food... definitely boiled crawfish and pizza are the top two.

as far as music... i am in to bands like the kills, white stripes, radiohead, arcade fire, foo fighters, them crooked vultures, weezer, nirvana, everclear, ray charles, movie scores, classical, older music that you can actually slow dance to, rebirth and second line, and even though I don't listen to it on my own time I can always enjoy music at a club with a beat that makes you want to move.

for reading... i dont really read much... trust me i know that sucks... i think me and reading have been on bad terms ever since i was in school and had to read a lot. we havent rekindled that flame. catcher in the rye was one that definitely made an impact on me in high school. in college... reading hamlet... forever changed me.

laughing, caring, my duel ability to be so young hearted but so serious, family and friends, my guitar, my camera.

life... psychology... existence... behavior...

what my next move is... where is life leading me... And the thoughts go on and on.

maybe hanging out with friends... at work every other weekend... going out and about... or bumming around in pj's watching a movie. not that those things are limited just to friday nights.

i have a weird fear of horses... i think they are beautiful... but i am scared to death of their size and scared of getting kicked by one.

you want to message me.
if you are interested in something i wrote or some impression you get of me.
if you have any questions... and want to know anything more about me.
if you are seeking a mature healthy relationship that includes communication, trust, and attraction, please don't let that scare you away, it's the only thing that makes sense to me.