Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i make great effort to be kind to everyone. i sometimes fail
miserably... but most of the time i succeed. i love to be young
hearted, silly, and playful... but i am also very mindful,
insightful, and serious. i like having conversations about people
and behavior and life and existence... because i am in a constant
state of attempting to make sense of it all. It still doesn't make
sense to me. i have what i think is a great sense of humor... it
can be peculiar and odd at times, but of course i think i am
hilarious. I am pretty much a homebody, but will go out to certain
events if I feel up to it.
What I’m doing with my life
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For 6 plus years I worked on an adolescent behavioral health unit.
i worked with teenagers and little kids. i learned a lot of amazing
and beautiful things about individuals and sadly a lot of horrible
and disheartening things about humanity while working there. I
recently got a job as a psychometrist in the psychology department
of a hospital. I mainly do Autism evaluations, but also
occasionally do neuropsych evals with kids with cancer or brain
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i have been playing guitar for 20 years. i am into photography and
have a decent camera that i am wanting to explore the art more
with. A friend and I recently created a short film for a
competition, and plan to do more in the future. i am good at
listening... i am good at making people feel very welcome and
comfortable around me. i am good at analyzing just about anything
The first things people usually notice about me
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my ability to make you feel comfortable around me... my shyness
that is disguised as extroversion. I have come to the understanding
that I am an introvert and am frequently worn out by certain social
interactions and situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i am very passionate about the movies and music i am into. i am
into dark, serious, intellectual movies usually. There Will Be
Blood is one of my all time favorites if that gives you and idea.
Tree of Life, Melancholia, Take Shelter, Another Earth, The Master,
are some of my recent favorites. I will forever love Signs, The
Village, Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, and American
Lost and Breaking Bad are two of my all time favorite tv shows. The
Leftovers is my new favorite, it is absolutely beautiful and
brilliant. Derek on Netflix is also super deep and amazing. I also
love shows like The Office and Its Always Sunny in
food... definitely boiled crawfish and pizza are the top two.
as far as music... i am in to bands like the kills, white stripes,
radiohead, arcade fire, foo fighters, them crooked vultures,
weezer, nirvana, everclear, ray charles, pink floyd, queen, movie
scores, classical, delta blues, and older music that you can
actually slow dance to.
for reading... i dont really read much... trust me i know that
sucks... i think me and reading have been on bad terms ever since i
was in school and had to read a lot. we havent rekindled that
flame. catcher in the rye was one that definitely made an impact on
me in high school. in college... reading hamlet... forever changed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
laughing, caring, my dual ability to be so young hearted but so
serious, family and friends, my guitar, my camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life... psychology... mortality... existence... behavior...
what my next move is... where is life leading me... where am I
leading life... And the perseverative thoughts go on and on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing watching a movie on Netflix or from Redbox. Occasionally
maybe hanging out with a small amount of friends. not that those
things are limited just to friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have a weird fear of horses... i think they are beautiful... but
i am scared to death of their size and scared of getting kicked by
You should message me if
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you want to message me.
if you are interested in something i wrote or some impression you
get of me.
if you have any questions... and want to know anything more.
if you are seeking a mature healthy relationship that includes
communication, trust, and attraction. please don't let that scare
you away, it's the only thing that makes sense to me.
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