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34 M Auckland, New Zealand

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:09am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
English, French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Originally from England, landed in Auckland in 2011.

I'm highly motivated and have a lot I want to achieve in my life. I'm easy going and get on with a lot of different types of people. Tenaciously independent. Love meeting new people - especially passionate awesome people.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring Auckland, finding my tribe, plotting business ideas and shenanigans. I just did a weekend course in sensual massage. I'm often doing some course or other.

Currently working towards a launch of a website I'm developing which I'm well excited about.
I’m really good at
Seeing the funny side of things. Doing funky stuff with technology. Brainstorming ways of achieving something. Seeing someone else's side of any argument. Networking. Maître corrupter.

Taking life lightly and seeing positives.
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently I'm "way hotter than I look in my photographs." (I hear this too often, somebody teach me how to look good on film.)

In Auckland: my English accent.

I like to smile too, I'm a pretty upbeat kind of guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My Spotify Playlist: Nouvelle Vague, Santogold, Oasis, drum n' bass, David Guetta, Garth Brooks, Joey Riot, Gnarles Barkley, The Doors, Tegan and Sara, The Courteeners, Pixies, Madonna, Friendly Fires, Jamie-T, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Jack Johnson, Eminem, Snow Patrol, Ian Brown, Chemical Brothers, Foo Fighters, Kings of Leon, Fireflies, ABBA... wait, no, what's that doing there!

Books: Platform, Iain M. Banks, , Anthony Kedis' bio, Zen, Freakonomics. I tend to read serious books (creativity, negotiation, investing) with sci-fi/fantasy for fun. I read a lot of books about sexuality. Occasionally someone slips a "good classic" past my defences.
The six things I could never do without
Awesome friends
Apple kit
Love, dancing and feminine beauty
A refreshing glass of water!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How can we make the World more fun? How cool is it that the Internet can help you find awesome people! How am I ever going to do all the stuff I want to with my life?

I am a bit of a “thinker” about social issues and life in general. I muse a lot about sexuality and intimacy and how our culture could move in a positive direction there.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's nothing 'typical' about a Friday night.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
People who have interesting fun stuff going on in their lives. Open people. Up-front People. People who hug. People who trust. People who are themselves. People who are "worth it". People who enjoy stuff.