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23 M Bristol, UK

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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First things first, where's the queer option on OkCupid? I put bi out of convenience but I'm unabashedly queer, contact me if you dunno what that means! :] Fuck cis!
You should know I have a beautful partner who makes me very happy but we do have a semi-open thing going on and're looking for fun! If you want to have some fun with a lovely me and my partner WIll (female-bodied) then we might be up for saying hiii! ^^
That said I could also be persuaded into fun and friendliness!
I love Swing Dancing, have been doing it for quite a while now.
I dunno why I feel I should say it but people can be shallow, so if you're bothered by the fact that I'm a slightly larger person, fuck off kindly.
I'm an avid philosopher though I haven't studied it in any manner, Foucault rocks
I'm into politickin', because I think treating someone badly due to gender, race, sexuality or other such irrelevant things is exceptionally moronic and will stand up against those who say otherwise, plus I hold a lot of other strong far, perhaps radical leftist ideas, I don't assign myself to a political label, I used to but bleh, not again.
I'm into kink, don't mind saying it, I'm not one of these livethelifetwentyfourseven!!11! types and it's not the only way I get my kicks, but hey, it's hot.
I'm an unrepentant geeknerd creature, I love gaming of all sorts.
I love comics, Hellboy series especially rocks my boat.
I love music, all sorts of music, it's a shame the way modern music has gone, chart music is shit, I try to stay open-minded but it is, vacuous bland fucks.
I'm a music player as well I suppose, being a massive fan of Blues I play a lot of Blues guitar and harmonica, but I can sort of just about play quite a few different instruments.
I like clothes, I wouldn't say I'm an obsessive 'cause y'know, I can be just as much a jeans and a t-shirt type as much as all my vintage gear but yeah, I have an especial love of fourties and fifties style, vintage is pretty damn cool in a not wanky hipster way.
Despite all the apparent rather sociable things I do I'm quite the recluse in a lot of ways, wary of social interactions and perhaps a little awkward, not always though, changeable...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working now takes up a lot of time, then swing dancing then all sorts of other fun things, learning banjo!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping on the beat
Dancing (or so I've been told)
Being enthusiastic
Analysing situations and things (perhaps over-analysing)
Cooking, when I can be bothered
Picking skills up quickly, mastering is a different case.
Spending too much time thinking about something before acting upon it.
Being on my own.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That all depends, perhaps how I'm dressed, perhaps how I present myself personality wise. I dunno!
My glasses and hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading but especially American literature from the beat era and depression era.
I can't tell you my favourite music, we'd be here too long. At the moment I'm big into blues, rockabilly stuff and american folk. Oh wait, Tom Waits. Nuff said.
I love tex-mex food, burrito's rock. I like thai food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A shower (though I haven't one at the moment)
A place to be with loadsa people
A place I can be on my own.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pretty much everything, over-analysation is a thing I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Swing dancing or staying in, listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use sarcastic humour as a defence.
I have quite a problem with anxiety and depression though I'd say neither take over my life, perhaps sometimes there's a danger of that happening.
You should message me if
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You're also a bit of a recluse but you like company, or you like dancing! Or sexy funz! Or, you're nice, or, interesting... I dunno, we'd probably get along in some way.