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45 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:55pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from university
Has a kid
My self-summary
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Among my charismatic attributes: I am not dead.

Also rather noteworthy, I am relatively durable and impact resistant. Furthermore I fit into corners somewhat easily and can defend you with rocks or empty beer cans against unwanted fringe elements should the need arise,, possibly without asking to see your preferred seating voucher. I will not stare at your clothes while they go round and round in the drier for extended periods and ask you questions about the length of your previous relationships.

I am looking for a woman with humor, arms and legs (not necessarily in that order), an ability to out run the cops, or at least clean the doughnut off their faces while under pressure. Active or reactive creativity, whatever you call it, or at least an interest in the arts. Your own spirituality and willfulness. Playfulness.

LIke others here I am looking for love. At this time I can support that. It has taken time, but I am one to know that the better things often do.

These are the things that turn me on:

Watching the great Spanish Bulls of Sunshine that roll end over end down the broad streets of a fine and lazy summers day in the city.

Smelling time in good dark soil, drinking living water, listening loudly and talking softly, and the tiny yellow punk rocker flowers in the grass giving you the finger as you jimmy-up to your work-a-day Monday.

Standing hip high naked in a beautiful stream for 80 years.

Watching the redundant paper worn news in the park from last weeks edition tumble across a childs path.

Deeper visitations of ART and art.

Among other things, I am a writer, designer, musician, fools prayer, romantic (both hopeless and otherwise), playful, politically incorrect, and both wild and warm at heart. Among my friends are kindred eccentrics, runaway face fountains, select wheelie-barrow buroughed braniacs, folklaureate-jawed trowel talkers, and stones throw poets. Flakes, tiny tone liars, or superfluous goddess pageant glitter by number narcissistic personality juntas just annoy me (you know who you are....then again you probably don't-- damn, did I leave my Icon design book at Bluebottle again?)

I'm looking for a writer or other artist or someone else entirely, who is shacking up in this raw wild world... to partner with and to latch onto one another with so tightly that we smother each other completely (AHa! Just checking if you are actually reading all this! I digress). Someone special with a warm heart who is ready to take that long donkey ride out of town with, together with another emotionally available animal--(uhhh, that would be me, the biped).

Seriously though, being in the fold of the breadth, warmth and width from a shared partnership with the right person... now that does sound like a fine pot of tea....
What I’m doing with my life
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Ok, I'm back. Water always helps the stuttering.

Writing children's stories (published next year), poetry and other heavier that air word witch wicker balloons. Working in my business Beethoven's Gutter Works - a residential work collective supporting music education in East Bay public schools, making stuff, writing (last time, promise), sliding on my belly in the warm Tomales Bay mud (a persona Mecca).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staring down street crow toughs flocked out on a wire, giving dog massages, taking the ego out the back and shooting it, when necessary.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. That I have since learned to peel bananas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recently I like a lot of classic literature. Camus, Henery Miller, Snyder, Baudelarie, etc.

Music: Radiohead, Les Negres Verts, Mano Negra, Pixies, Chibbo Matto, The Boredomes, The Corn Horny Honk Donkeys, See Feel, Flaming Lips, Chemical brothers, Ween, Doors, Fat Freddy's Drop, anything on Nightmares on Wax, Ninja tune or Warp labels, etc.

Movies: Blade Runner, emelie, the piano, anything by derrek jarman, The Sadest Music in the World, Les Amans du Point Neuf, Gitanes, Akira, Anything by Wonkar Wei, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Watching young white people from the suburbs hi five- yo, you ma Niggazz!!!! ( never looses it's entertainment value), beer bubbles, sexy wispers, imagination, music that sounds best played off the back of a horse drawn cart in Romania.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Existential glitter, spiritual cabnetmaking, maintaining humanity in an world of reckless pursuit, Love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night, yes, "I AM".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not exactally person that I have made myself out to be here. There is less, there is more.
You should message me if
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You want to speak to the manager; have a keen eye for avoiding those with sleep in their bellies; If you are lucky, or just want to get that way possibly; appreciate intelligence and wit, with side orders eccentricity; if you appreciate tangible loyalty and flakeless friendship; if you lick art very much thankyou; or enjoy adventure squiring on the weekends, and of course penguin drawings (!!!). If you are still forgiving people; cultivating your truth and meaning; are still willing to take a chance. If you are still really single! If you are looking for a warm HEART for friendship or more. If you are not ready to "go quietly into that goodnight".