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58 M Santa Barbara, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 39–99
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 21
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay), German (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Looking for a soul-friend, romance, lover, challenge, fun and chemistry, open for relationship.

"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being a human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more then she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - BOB MARLEY

Just moved to Cali from ... Montana and looking forward to explore this beautiful place. Do you want to be my Cicerone?

I am:
Always committing 100% to "here and now".
Process oriented - enjoying a journey regardless of a destination.
Constantly improving myself.
No regrets. Ever.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Really enjoying my life. It would be nice however, to share with you moments like star gazing during cold February night, dancing samba in Rio, sailing between Greek islands or skiing in the powder of Big Sky.
Always wanted to be a ski bum.
I floss teeth daily.
Shoes and belt usually match.
I have an excellent relationship with my kids and my mother.
Always adopted dogs from a shelter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing and cuddling at the fireplace.
Giving sensual massage.
Playing poker and game go.
Easy adapting to new places, situations, people while totally understanding that no one can change anyone else, but themselves.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cute accent and really sexy voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sushi, steak
dark beer
pink wine
Swiss chocolate
raspberry ice-cream
Lately: A. Sapkowski, J. Wisniewski etc.
House, Seinfeld
The Sting, LoTR, 007
Chopin, Beethoven, Ravel, jazz, rock, blues, opera, some rap, Bob Marley, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Billie Holiday, Ben Harper, Cohen, Ronstadt, Stevie Wonder, many others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, food, waste elimination, physical activities - duh
friends, family, lovers, meeting new people
passion, great sex and romance
meditating, yoga, tantra
mountains, ocean, traveling, exploring new places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to please you
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun!
And Saturday nights I love sauteing some wild pacific salmon in butter and serving it up with an aromatic burgundy for a few intimate friends out on my patio while listening to Edith Piaf and talking about meaning of life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like chick flicks. Even cried after Deep Impact - ask my daughter.
You should message me if
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If you are classy, open minded, adventurous, passionate, funny, assertive, attractive, common sense and intelligent lady then contact me. You will be pleased.