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34 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:12pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
According to a breakdown of OkCupid’s data, the words most likely to get a conversation going on this site for men are chillin’, blunts, cabernet, horsepower, faithfulness, and sensuality. For women, it's lingerie, marijuana, deodorant, handcuffs, mouthwash, and Redbull.

This makes me wonder what I'm doing here. If you also find this terrifying and hilarious, we're off to a good start.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lawyering by day (I'm a litigator), drinking martinis by night. Striving for total bar trivia domination. Teaching myself the second movement of Beethoven's Symphony No. 7 on the piano. Not taking anything for granted. And a bunch of other stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Real talk. Being punctual. Bar trivia/Jeopardy!. Throwing theme parties/BBQs/pre-games. Diffusing awkwardness. Always looking on the bright side and remaining positive. Remembering names. Karaoke -- and by "really good" I mean I'm so bad that I'm incredible.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall. People often comment on how good I smell. I've got a firm handshake (or so I'm told). And I'm really friendly...I make an effort to be kind to everyone I encounter, even if the sentiment isn't reciprocated.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For the sake of brevity, let's talk about this in person!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to eat. I also think about my bed a lot. Seriously, what's better than luxuriating in your bed after a long day? And yes, I just said "luxuriating." It's out there and I'm not taking it back.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It goes a little something like this: I'm tired, I say I'm not going out, I get a second wind, I rally, I go out, and I always end up having a great time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a little girl I dreamed that, at the ripe age of 33, I would be on an online dating website . . . and here I am.

Also, one time I threw a middle school themed dance party and when the "Tootsee Roll Remix" came on I did the butterfly so aggressively that I pulled two muscles. It was totally worth it.
You should message me if
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Ideally, you're well-adjusted, you have your act together professionally, you're kind, you're hilarious, you're consistent, and you don't take yourself too seriously. Tall doesn't hurt, either.

And lastly, please be emotionally healthy! If you're not in pursuit of a real connection and a meaningful relationship, please keep it moving. I'm seeking a partner, not a project.