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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 7
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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Back here after some peaceful time-off. Ready for another break now. No. (Fight it). OK I'm back.

I like meditation (getting better), 65 degrees, reading/playing chess with strong green tea. I also like plenty of other things.
What I’m doing with my life
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Comedy (stand-up, some sketch) with a part-time corporate gig to pay the bills.

Interested in the struggle: What am I avoiding by presenting a certain self? (parallels to online dating... appearances, appearances)

Recently got into psychology (the next sections are more fun I promise), mindfulness, nature of mind or lack thereof, insecurity, how trauma can manifest in the body, accepting vulnerability/weakness, finding in weakness not only strength but more importantly connection. Trying to merge some of this into comedy but it's like a left lane rush hour merge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Dipping baked goods into coffee/tea and NOT making a mess (not becoming when the item breaks off and ruins the coffee)

-Over-analyzing my diet, optimal caffeine intake, etc

-Replaying (and winning) arguments in my head.

-Tennis, table tennis.

-Making guac

-Pointing at dogs
The first things people usually notice about me
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Full grown owl on my head, my scalp bleeding from its claws.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Monkey Mind, Subliminal, Krishnamurti, some Osho, Annie Hall, Man on the Moon, Squid and Whale, Mulholland Drive, Puffy Chair, The Departed, Sideways, Party Down, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Curb, Extras, High Maintenence, Last Week Tonight, War on Drugs, R.E.M., Smog, The Hold Steady, Titus Andronicus, The National, The Mountain Goats, guac, fresh guac, sushi, berries, oatmeal, pumpkin pie, steamed collards, sancocho, mexican. Recently soups of all kinds and Korean.

*Currently a self-loathing carnivore. Trying to limit meats to humanly treated but sometimes you grab the Trader Joe's chicken burritos cause you're TIRED of trying all the goddamn time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
quality, non-poisonous soap
Due iphone app
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Good food, maybe a few drinks. Lately been more into Saturday mornings so Fridays are more on the resetting tip.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Knit caps set my hair nicely, which makes me like winter more than I should.
You should message me if
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