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SA84inLA

30 M West Hollywood, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 30
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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In search of new challenges -- both in myself and others.

Grew up in the Valley (I've been called a Unicorn since native Angelenos are just as rare) and did the whole Jewish private school thing until I decided to rebel and told my family I wanted to stare at goyim in the locker-room rather than the rest of the tribe. Woe is the shiksa goddess.

Went to UCLA and graduated with a degree in Psychology along with minors in Sociology and LGBT Studies. Was a professional gay in every sense of the word.

I started my own company a few years ago. Can easily play well with others but there's something about setting my own schedule and being accountable to myself that makes for a happier me. It's exciting, scary and may have turned me into a workaholic but I've found the sacred balance.

When I'm not working I love traveling (which is ironically work) and being with friends. Love movies and television -- more the lovable relate-able evolving characters than the time with Netflix in the background watching my day go by. Have a knack for memorizing lines and monologues -- can go either way annoying or amusing loved ones...
What I’m doing with my life
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Own a Travel Concierge Service ... think personal assistant meets travel agent.

After six years as a Hollywood Writer's PA and a year as pearl clutching blue haired headset wearing travel agent, I decided I wanted something in the middle. No matter what, I enjoy being my own boss. There's too much to do in life that happens between 9 and 5.

Started grad school in Psychology for my MFT and am planning on finishing the NASM certification in personal training ... At some point. At the moment my business has put these on the back burner until I have the spare time again.

Otherwise I enjoy traveling as often as possible, it's nice to be able to say that I enjoy my work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love writing and humor. Perhaps in my spare time (what is this SPARE time I keep referencing) I'll write the perfect novel or script but try not to be "that" LA.

I've always been a people pleaser -- one way or another I like to make sure the people in my life are happy. Still learning to prioritize myself once in a while but otherwise I get a lot of joy helping someone else.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The fact that I can instill a sense of humor into anything. I'd call it a defense mechanism if it weren't something I consciously took pleasure in. I like to laugh, I like to make other people laugh ... yes I'll finally come out of the closet: I'm actually a clown.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wow ... just those huh? How does one choose a star from the sky or grain of sand from the beach?

Wicked / Son of a Witch / Lion Among Men is a good start for me. The three together tell the story of every lifetime and create such reality from a world of fantsy. Really loved Kramer's Faggots and Vidal's City and the Pillar. For the lighter stuff I loved Devil Wears Prada and all of Weisberger's other books.

Movies could go on forEVER but for now I'll just be fun and go with Troop Beverly Hills and First Wives Club.

Am pretty partial to the show Hairspray despite seeing it more times than I care to admit. Also a huge fan of Suddenly Last Summer.

For food ... I'm pretty basic. Love great food and great wine. Always ready to try a new adventure but happiest with a well executed turkey burger and fries. Have started cooking a lot lately so one of my favorites has been portobello mushroom raviolis in a butter/cabernet reduction with cayenne and a dash of cinnamon with grilled chicken mixed in.

One of my favorite restaurants is Bazaar ... Love the amazingly different menu and the group engaging atmosphere.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) Family
(2) Friends
(3) Showers
(4) Caffeine
(5) Egg Whites
(6) Five Senses

Had to laugh at this one and try to take it seriously but the last couple years of my life (and a recent period that I've been without a cellphone) have helped me realize what's important and that there are very few things we can't live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to go next ... what I'm really doing with my life ... if I should be focusing on the problems of others or just working on myself ... constantly assessing my goals ... what I could be doing ... what I should be doing ... what did I have for breakfast ... do I have time to get to the gym ... did I reply to that email ... I haven't heard from her in a while ... wonder if I should sell that artwork ... I need a maid ... it's all junk ... UGH STOP THINKING AND GET TO YOGA!

It never stops ;-) This has been my stream of consciousness ... we now take you back to our regularly scheduled program.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out to dinner with great friends or finishing unpacking in a hotel ... either way I'm just as ready to tear up the town or spend a night in relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I drink milk straight from my carton at home. I live alone. Who's going to come over for milk ... really.

Fine. *hides in corner*

I have a lot of private things to admit but I'm not hindered by them. I'm an open book. Some chapters are more entertaining than others but just the same they're all part of me and I'm happy to share. I have a past that makes a Nascar flag look striped, can you handle the ride?

"Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count...."

"I am not what happened to me, I am who I choose to become."
You should message me if
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you are ready to. I know we all want someone else in our lives but I know that it takes time to get to that place where we're open and ready enough to be with them.

Looking for a guy that can enjoy a night in as much as a night out. Maybe spending a weekend at home doing nothing or just spontaneously deciding to head to Turks and Caicos for the weekend...