Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a feminist polyamorous man for adventure. If you
do not identify as either, or don't know what those words mean,
we're probably not compatible. Compliments about my intellect will
get a much warmer reception than compliments about my beauty. I AM
NOT INTO CASUAL SEX at all. I am in a couple casual relationships,
and I only wish to add other experienced polyamorus people to this
I want to fill my life with loving, passionate, and grateful
people. I am lucky enough to come from a loving family who I am
currently living with my parents in Marin (though I list myself as
SF since I'm close) while I start my career as a phlebotomist. I'm
planning on going to surgical tech school next year, and after that
I would like to do some overseas medical volunteer work.
I am a dancer. I have studied many forms of dance, and I mainly
hula hoop. If I am upset, a good hoop session will calm me down and
cheer me up. I'm currently taking a ballet class at community
college. I love to go out dancing, so I prefer partners who enjoys
those things too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I finished my BA in Anthropology at UC Santa Cruz in March 2013,
and then I went on the get my CPT-1. Now I'm living with my parents
and working as a phlebotomist and applying to a Surgical Tech
program at Skyline. In my leisure time I like to dance and craft
I'm currently enrolled in a Medical Assisting program in Berkeley.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job. Not everyone can be a good phlebotomist, but I've got a
cool head and a steady hand.
I have a talent for hula hooping. I can hoop dance like true Santa
Cruz hoop girl (we're kind of a 'type.') I've been training in
ballet for 6 years now, and I can pick up many forms of dance
fairly easily. I'm now branching out into acrobatics (aerial silk,
pole, lyra) and I while I wouldn't say I'm "really good" at it,
being able to do some basic climbs and flips is no small
I can't wait to be really good at acrobatics though. I'm working
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very enthusiastic and animated. I am very chipper in the
mornings. I can be loud, and that can be obnoxious to some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- Brave New World, Oryx and Krake, The Ethical Slut, Sex at
Dawn (some essential reading for a young and budding
Movies- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, How to be a Serial
Killer, Up, Toy Story trilogy
TV- Dexter, Breaking Bad, Community, It's Always Sunny in
Music- Funkadelic, Parilament, Beatles, Pink Floyd, Pretty Lights,
Wax Tailor, and much more.
Food- I will eat almost anything except gluten-free scones. Fuck
If you put the word "purple" into your first message I'll be nicer
since I'll know you read my profile in full.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My hula hoop
-Beauty (nature, art, ect)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind races and my trains of thought often jump
tracks. I can be hard to keep up with. Here's a couple random
thoughts for you.
It's important to write well if you're trying to attract people
with words. I find it extremely annoying when people capitalize the
first letter of every word in a sentence. Typing Like This Makes No
Sense When It's Not The Title To Anything. Also I hate it when
people abuse... the ellipsis... like this... it makes you sound
I wish sparkly clothes didn't have to itch so much. I would wear
way more sparkly stuff if it didn't itch. I could wear glitter but
glitter gets everywhere.
I should carry around sunglasses to put them on dramatically when I
have a cheesy pun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an adventure, out with my partner, kicking it with friends, or
chilling and watching netflix. Or any combination of those things.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-Polyamorous (and have been in a polyamourus relationship before. I
don't date people who are new to poly.)
-Have more to say than just "hello." Seriously, if you send me the
word "hi," I will respond with something just as half-assed.
-You're not going to tell me "I want to see you hoop sometime" I
get that all the time, it's old and I'm not just some monkey you
can make dance for you. Ok, mini-rant over, have a wonderful
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