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23 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 28
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I am looking for a feminist polyamorous man for adventure. If you do not identify as either, or don't know what those words mean, we're probably not compatible. Compliments about my intellect will get a much warmer reception than compliments about my beauty. I AM NOT INTO CASUAL SEX at all. I am in a couple casual relationships, and I only wish to add other experienced polyamorus people to this equation.

I want to fill my life with loving, passionate, and grateful people. I am lucky enough to come from a loving family who I am currently living with my parents in Marin (though I list myself as SF since I'm close) while I start my career as a phlebotomist. I'm currently in Medical Assisting school and figuring my life out.

I am a dancer. I have studied many forms of dance, and I mainly hula hoop. If I am upset, a good hoop session will calm me down and cheer me up. I'm currently taking a ballet class at community college. I love to go out dancing, so I prefer partners who enjoys those things too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I finished my BA in Anthropology at UC Santa Cruz in March 2013, and then I went on the get my CPT-1. Now I'm living with my parents and working as a phlebotomist and going to school. In my leisure time I like to dance and craft and volunteer.

I'm currently enrolled in a Medical Assisting program in Berkeley.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job. Not everyone can be a good phlebotomist, but I've got a cool head and a steady hand.

I have a talent for hula hooping. I can hoop dance like true Santa Cruz hoop girl (we're kind of a 'type.') I've been training in ballet for 6 years now, and I can pick up many forms of dance fairly easily. I'm now branching out into acrobatics (aerial silk, pole, lyra) and I while I wouldn't say I'm "really good" at it, being able to do some basic climbs and flips is no small feat.

I can't wait to be really good at acrobatics though. I'm working towards it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very enthusiastic and animated. I am very chipper in the mornings. I can be loud, and that can be obnoxious to some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Brave New World, Oryx and Krake, The Ethical Slut, Sex at Dawn (some essential reading for a young and budding polyamorist)

Movies- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, How to be a Serial Killer, Up, Toy Story trilogy

TV- Dexter, Breaking Bad, Community, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Futurama, Empire

Music- Funkadelic, Parilament, Beatles, Pink Floyd, Pretty Lights, Wax Tailor, and much more.

Food- I will eat almost anything except gluten-free scones. Fuck gluten-free scones.

If you put the word "purple" into your first message I'll be nicer since I'll know you read my profile in full.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My family
-My friends
-My hula hoop
-Beauty (nature, art, ect)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind races and my trains of thought often jump tracks. I can be hard to keep up with. Here's a couple random thoughts for you.

It's important to write well if you're trying to attract people with words. I find it extremely annoying when people capitalize the first letter of every word in a sentence. Typing Like This Makes No Sense When It's Not The Title To Anything. Also I hate it when people abuse... the ellipsis... like this... it makes you sound super wishy-washy...

I wish sparkly clothes didn't have to itch so much. I would wear way more sparkly stuff if it didn't itch. I could wear glitter but glitter gets everywhere.

I should carry around sunglasses to put them on dramatically when I have a cheesy pun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an adventure, out on a date, kicking it with friends, or chilling and watching netflix. Or any combination of those things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a profile on FL.
You should message me if
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You are...
-Over 21
-Polyamorous (and have been in a polyamourus relationship before. I don't date people who are new to poly.)
-420 friendly
-Have more to say than just "hello." Seriously, if you send me the word "hi," I will respond with something just as half-assed.
-You're not going to tell me "I want to see you hoop sometime" I get that all the time, it's old and I'm not just some monkey you can make dance for you. Ok, mini-rant over, have a wonderful existence.