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24 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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I am looking for a feminist polyamorous primary for adventure. If these words confuse you, we're probably not compatible. Compliments about my intellect will get a much warmer reception than compliments about my beauty. I AM NOT INTO CASUAL SEX at all. Within the next ten years I would like to be married and have kids, as well as other lovers. I only wish to add other experienced polyamorus people to this equation.

I want to fill my life with loving, passionate, and grateful people. I am lucky enough to come from a loving family who I am currently living with my parents in Marin (though I list myself as SF since I'm close) while I start my career in medicine. In the mean time I'm a barista while I wait to apply to Surgical Technician school.

I am a dancer. I have studied many forms of dance, and I mainly hula hoop. If I am upset, a good hoop session will calm me down and cheer me up. I'm currently taking a ballet class at a local dance studio. I love to go out dancing, so I prefer partners who enjoys those things too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I finished my BA in Anthropology at UC Santa Cruz in March 2013, and then I went on the get my CPT-1. Now I'm living with my parents and working at an organic cafe and going to school. In my leisure time I like to dance and craft and volunteer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a talent for hula hooping. I can hoop dance like true Santa Cruz hoop girl (we're kind of a 'type.') I've been training in ballet for 6 years now, and I can pick up many forms of dance fairly easily. I'm now branching out into acrobatics (aerial silk, pole, lyra) and I while I wouldn't say I'm "really good" at it, being able to do some basic climbs and flips is no small feat.

I can't wait to be really good at acrobatics though. I'm working towards it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very enthusiastic and animated. I am very chipper in the mornings. I can be loud, and that can be obnoxious to some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Brave New World, Oryx and Krake, The Ethical Slut, Sex at Dawn (some essential reading for a young and budding polyamorist)

Movies- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, How to be a Serial Killer, Up, Toy Story trilogy

TV- Dexter, Breaking Bad, Community, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Futurama, Empire

Music- Funkadelic, Parilament, Beatles, Pink Floyd, Pretty Lights, Wax Tailor, and much more.

Food- I will eat almost anything except gluten-free scones. Fuck gluten-free scones.

If you put the word "purple" into your first message I'll be nicer since I'll know you read my profile in full.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My family
-My friends
-My hula hoop
-Beauty (nature, art, ect)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind races and my trains of thought often jump tracks. I can be hard to keep up with. Here's a couple random thoughts for you.

It's important to write well if you're trying to attract people with words. I find it extremely annoying when people capitalize the first letter of every word in a sentence. Typing Like This Makes No Sense When It's Not The Title To Anything. Also I hate it when people abuse... the ellipsis... like this... it makes you sound super wishy-washy...

I wish sparkly clothes didn't have to itch so much. I would wear way more sparkly stuff if it didn't itch. I could wear glitter but glitter gets everywhere.

I should carry around sunglasses to put them on dramatically when I have a cheesy pun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an adventure, out on a date, kicking it with friends, or chilling and watching netflix. Or any combination of those things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a profile on FL.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Ok so I know this is really specific but I meet plenty of people in real life so:

-Over 21
-Experienced polyamourist
-Seeking a primary
-420 friendly
-Have more to say than just "hello."