Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a feminist polyamorous man for adventure. If you
do not identify as either, or don't know what those words mean,
we're probably not compatible. Compliments about my intellect will
get a much warmer reception than compliments about my beauty. I AM
NOT INTO CASUAL SEX at all. I am in a couple casual relationships,
and I only wish to add other experienced polyamorus people to this
I want to fill my life with loving, passionate, and grateful
people. I am lucky enough to come from a loving family who I am
currently living with my parents in Marin (though I list myself as
SF since I'm close) while I start my career as a phlebotomist. I'm
currently in Medical Assisting school and figuring my life
I am a dancer. I have studied many forms of dance, and I mainly
hula hoop. If I am upset, a good hoop session will calm me down and
cheer me up. I'm currently taking a ballet class at community
college. I love to go out dancing, so I prefer partners who enjoys
those things too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I finished my BA in Anthropology at UC Santa Cruz in March 2013,
and then I went on the get my CPT-1. Now I'm living with my parents
and working as a phlebotomist and going to school. In my leisure
time I like to dance and craft and volunteer.
I'm currently enrolled in a Medical Assisting program in Berkeley.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job. Not everyone can be a good phlebotomist, but I've got a
cool head and a steady hand.
I have a talent for hula hooping. I can hoop dance like true Santa
Cruz hoop girl (we're kind of a 'type.') I've been training in
ballet for 6 years now, and I can pick up many forms of dance
fairly easily. I'm now branching out into acrobatics (aerial silk,
pole, lyra) and I while I wouldn't say I'm "really good" at it,
being able to do some basic climbs and flips is no small
I can't wait to be really good at acrobatics though. I'm working
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very enthusiastic and animated. I am very chipper in the
mornings. I can be loud, and that can be obnoxious to some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- Brave New World, Oryx and Krake, The Ethical Slut, Sex at
Dawn (some essential reading for a young and budding
Movies- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, How to be a Serial
Killer, Up, Toy Story trilogy
TV- Dexter, Breaking Bad, Community, It's Always Sunny in
Philadelphia, Futurama, Empire
Music- Funkadelic, Parilament, Beatles, Pink Floyd, Pretty Lights,
Wax Tailor, and much more.
Food- I will eat almost anything except gluten-free scones. Fuck
If you put the word "purple" into your first message I'll be nicer
since I'll know you read my profile in full.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My hula hoop
-Beauty (nature, art, ect)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind races and my trains of thought often jump
tracks. I can be hard to keep up with. Here's a couple random
thoughts for you.
It's important to write well if you're trying to attract people
with words. I find it extremely annoying when people capitalize the
first letter of every word in a sentence. Typing Like This Makes No
Sense When It's Not The Title To Anything. Also I hate it when
people abuse... the ellipsis... like this... it makes you sound
I wish sparkly clothes didn't have to itch so much. I would wear
way more sparkly stuff if it didn't itch. I could wear glitter but
glitter gets everywhere.
I should carry around sunglasses to put them on dramatically when I
have a cheesy pun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an adventure, out on a date, kicking it with friends, or
chilling and watching netflix. Or any combination of those things.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-Polyamorous (and have been in a polyamourus relationship before. I
don't date people who are new to poly.)
-Have more to say than just "hello." Seriously, if you send me the
word "hi," I will respond with something just as half-assed.
-You're not going to tell me "I want to see you hoop sometime" I
get that all the time, it's old and I'm not just some monkey you
can make dance for you. Ok, mini-rant over, have a wonderful
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