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30 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
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5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm never good at these things. I'm not one to talk about myself, but in short, I rarely drink and when I do I am very nervous about it as I never know how the tummy will react, I don't smoke (this includes pot) and I don't do drugs (this, too, includes pot). If you couldn't tell by the name, I love scuba and anything in the water. I like to read and spend hours browsing bookshops. I also love to travel and experience new cultures. I love to make people laugh and, in return, people tell me I'm funny. I appreciate a sense of humour, but also a brain. I don't play games and can't stand men who do. I also hate "players". I'm looking for a sweet, sincere, caring, mature, down to earth man. Sense of humour and a brain (and a willingness to use said brain) are a must. Creativity, adventurous and spontaneity are a plus. Good musical taste is mega ultra bonus points.

This is tough, so if you have any questions, just ask please. I'm extremely laid back and enjoy the beauty of life. Long walks, deep dives and wonderful friends are the best things in the world, no?
What I’m doing with my life
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living and enjoying my life, creating and learning every day.
I’m really good at
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Listening and offering good advice. Art and creating. Scuba diving. Snuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and that I am somewhat tall (for a girl).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i read alot of political books, biographies of musicians, artists and politicos and true crime. i also like 50s/early 60s pulp novelettes. i love the all the Wizard of Oz and Alice in Wonderland books. other faves include, but are not limited to, most anything by Bret Easton Ellis, Chuck Palahniuk, Hunter S. Thompson and Noam Chomsky, also The Bell Jar, Girl Interrupted, Child of God, Darkly Dreaming Dexter and much, much more.

I like classic black and white films, documentaries of almost any sort, and horror movies. again, some favourites include, but are not limited to, No Country for Old Men, The Devil and Daniel Johnston, Annie Hall and pretty much all of Woody Allen's films until the 90s, all the cheesy Beatles movies, anything with Audrey Hepburn, and most all Hitchcock, Castle, Tarantino and Burton films (early ones).

the only shows i watch regularly are Dexter, Walking Dead, Mad Men and Lockup. CNN.

my music taste is incredibly vast. punk, rockabilly, oldies, classic country (not the new trash), jazz, big band, swing, blues, bossa nova, some new wave, indie rock.... blah blah blah... i'm a music snob.

good mexican food. baklava. anything sweet.... most people have a sweet tooth, i have no less than 10.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food, water, shelter, etc. 2. Family 3. Friends 4. My dog 5.
Sunshine 6. Adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, then hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm so clumsy it's, more often than not, painful.
You should message me if
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You have something interesting to say. So few people have legitimately interesting things to say.

You know the difference between "your" and "you're" and "there," "their," and "they're."

You miss me. You're a sexy rock climber. You want to take me. Your name starts with a B.