I don't take myself too seriously and typically rely on self-deprecating humor to survive in today's crazy world.

Falling away - Benjamin Pacheco

I've come to realize that I can't change the past and have absolutely no way of predicting the future...all I can do is control the present and that's why I'm here. I want to share what I think has been, and continues to be, a pretty cool life with someone who's looking to do the same. More succinctly, I'll say this - I want to find a girl that would drive 900 miles in a diaper just to see me and I'd do the same... of course, neither one of us would have implements of destruction in our backseats and we wouldn't be charged with attempted murder! ;-)

Life is not only too short, but also too long to be wasted with unhappiness. I've had both misery and ecstasy in relationships and have become tired of the peaks and valleys and truly want to find someone steady yet spontaneous. I'm not so much interested in whether you squeeze the tube of toothpaste from the bottom as much as whether you call your parents on a regular basis. I think at the end of the day, you can't convey a personality in "120 characters or more" so if you like what you've read and can handle what I describe below, please click the 'Email Me!' button and type something...

Lately, I've been doing some or all of the following with my life: I love to play golf, be outdoors, hike, kayak, workout, listen to music, download music, listen to downloaded music, play with my home theater system, living up to the 'boys with toys' stereotype, do home improvements, watching HGTV to get ideas on home improvements, watch sports, shop online, sell things via Craig's little list, and attempting to think of things I'm doing with my life...

Hooking things up - you know...guy stuff.

I'm tall and can make farty noises with my hands...well, I don't usually put THAT on display first off, but it is quite the skill. Maybe I should've put that in the section on "I'm really good at".

Books: Fast Food Nation, Close To Shore, Harlan Coben, Why Do Men Have Nipples Movies: One Day in September, Friday Night Lights, Lives of Others, Kolya Music: Everything but cop killa rap, Alternative Country, Alternative Rock, Classic Rock, The Replacements, Joe Purdy, Pete Droge, The Blasters, The Gourds, Frightened Rabbit, Okkervil River, and any bluegrass covers of rap tunes. Food: Sushi, Indian, Red Velvet Cake (but NOT out of a box!)

JUST WATCHED Babel the other night - great picture show!

My friends, water, humor, freedom, and usually 2 random things that rotate...

If I'm truly making a difference in the world. Then I think that the time I just spent thinking about making a difference was getting in the way of actually making a difference. And around and around it goes...

Ecstatic with anticipation of a great weekend...

Well now, this ? doesn't really make sense...but, if pressed, I'll say that I have crazy spouts of wanderlust.

If you think we'd make a good meal.