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41 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–48
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:08am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am loyal, flirtaous, and reekingofawesomeness

A guy in his 40s (how did that happen) who still has goals from his 30s, and 20s for that matter, who finally found the drive he was missing.. Better late than never. :)

I have been concentrating on my fitness for the last couple of years with mixed results. I'm always looking for new exercise workout partners. Desire is there, motivation is always welcomed.

I am extremely lucky and thank God every day for the blessings he has given me. A family that supports me and loves me. A wide variety of friends who stimulate and struggle with me in our goal reaching efforts. A faith that I am comfortable in not to preach about but to live through. Yes I can believe in God, go to church on Sunday but unless asked you will see me live my faith not talk about it.

I'm a liberal who believes in compromise.
I'm a Catholic.
I live in San Diego.

Yep, that's fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I don't have a goal. I have goals. For a career, I know I could be happy in government, law, media, reality shows, fitness, or professional wrestling. Part time is fine for now but need to find the better paying, full timer soon.

For life - financial stability, weight reduction, health improvement, and physical and mental junk removal are things I work on every day.

Currently, working part time while taking care of my new nephew while his momma works all day with the help of my mom. (Who I help too.) Caregiver is not my paying job in the future just what is required of me now which I do with a smile on my face and lI've flowing from my heart.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing. Try me :)

Getting a reaction: Whether you think I'm awesome or annoying, I get you there fast and furiously. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
depends on the situation. If its online, I think my wit, charm, sarcasm, and intelligence shine. If its in person, from 50 feet away, its my body. But I can't help those people who see ass before awesome or gut before greatness. Come on in, I don't bite, just hug. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like good stories not into horror but like thrillers, political writers, history, and those with pictures (comic books).

Movies not scary but can be sappy. Action, good stories, and comedy (good comedy).

Shows - Carousel, Ragtime, 42nd Street, Wedding Singer.

Oh you meant TV? - Just about anything on TNT or USA will get at least a look about their description although I lean more toward USA. Royal Pains, Psych, Suits, White Collar.

Also reality shows, Food Network, and HGTV (not House Hunters)

Music - Recent music - Katy Perry, Mindi Abair, Katherine McPhee, Megan Hilty, cast of Glee.

My 80s enjoyment was Kool and the Gang, Oak Ridge Boys, Air Supply, and Styx. I moved on to Tiffany, Debbie Gibson, and Weird Al.

I am a member of the Secret Society of Straight Men who like Barry Manilow.

I should stop.

I do want people to actually message me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family

2. Friends

3. Geek Stuff

4. Communication

5. Compromise

6. Improvement

*I would have said wild passionate clothes tearing off monkey love but I seem to be surviving without that right now*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
who I am, what I'm doing, where I'm going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Blue Bloods thinking I should be at the gym and getting ready for work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am Good Luck Chuck these days.

Lately I seem to have been very helpful to the women on okcupid.

You think you might want to get back with a recent ex? Start talking with me... things will work out for you.

You think you are looking for that perfect guy? I'm not him but you will find him between our first and second date.

You think your dating life just sucks? I can also help remind you that you are beautiful and worthy of love.

I'm sure we can come up with more. Message away. :)
You should message me if
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Do me a favor if you've read this far: message me :)
Let me know what you liked about my profile, what you didn't like about my profile, and what your first impressions are of me: dateable, friendable, hateable. I will only improve in life and on okcupid with constructive critiques.