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43 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Asian, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Let's Go Giants! that that's out of the way....Just back in San Diego after two years in San Francisco and so excited to be home again!

People always ask, so here goes: I'm of mixed ethnicity to include Japanese, Spanish, French, German and Mexican. My Dad was in the Marine Corps and for most of my life I have been around the military, so was raised a bit of a tomboy. At some point, I learned to be a lady, but still very much love the "boy things." I love to travel and experience new never know what your new favorite place or food might be! I'll try most things at least once and maybe even twice to be sure. I'm an affectionate person. I very much believe that a smile given to a random stranger on the street can make all the difference in someone's day. And they are contagious too. :-D

I've lived all over and jump at the opportunity to travel, for work or pleasure...but usually mix the two. I worked for a tech company in San Francisco until very recently and am making some decisions that are leading to a higher quality of life. :-) It's a great place to be.
What I’m doing with my life
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First and foremost, creating and maintaining a quality of life. I love what I do professionally (event marketing manager), so I always have some amazing project in the works and it doesn't feel like work. Life is made even better by my awesome friends. You'd like 'em!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I put my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair and eyes. Next - that I don't look my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: X-Men, Avengers, Dark Knight Rises, Boondock Saints, Iron Man, most action flicks. And I do like animated films too...Pixar, Disney, Dreamworks! And yes, the occasional chick flick. I've still not seen Captain America, but it's next on my list!

TV Shows: Game of Thrones, Lost Girl, Big Bang Theory, Two & A Half Men, Mad Men, Spartacus, Lie to Me, Vampire Diaries, How I Met Your Mother, Dexter, The Walking Dead, Revenge, Hart of Dixie, Sleepy Hollow, Witches of East End. I don't own a t.v. and don't have cable, but HuluPlus and Netflix keep me updated on the road or when I have a break.

Music: So varied here from Michael Buble to Bullet For My Valentine and everything in between. Nickelback, Three Days Grace, and yes, even some country. Island/Hawaiian. I'm an 80's child. And Elvis too!

Books: Getting ready to start The Lean Startup and a mess of other tech related books. The last thing I read was Winter Sea (awesome book) and am currently reading the second book in a trilogy called Shadow of Night (the sequel to A Discovery of Witches). Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter last year. The Four Agreements. I tend to like suspense thrillers.

Food: Sushi and Japanese are at the top of my list, but I love food in general. I have a sweet tooth - ice cream and chocolate/caramel are my vices, but try to stay away from too much sugar. I am gluten-free and eat pretty healthy.

I also don't drink alcohol. I'm allergic to it, but occasionally will have a very low alcohol drink. I'm Queen of Mocktails!

LOVE UFC! Out of the loop and excited to get back in.

Football - yes, I like football, but due to work have been too busy to keep up the last couple of years. This season is on! And I'm enjoying every minute of it! Go Seahawks! Yep...I know I'm gonna get crap for that here. Bring it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Chocolate and sunshine, my passport, laughter, goofiness, my friends, companionship...ok that's seven...oops!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing Epic Shit!

My next trip and who I might meet.

The next chapter in my life. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either catching up with friends or enjoying a movie night in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got the nerd gene.
You should message me if
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If you can make me laugh til my stomach hurts and my face is aching!! You are considerate, honest, loyal, positive and open minded, have a sense of humor and love to laugh, are kind to others, don't sweat the small stuff, are a gentleman, and not afraid to be goofy.

I'm definitely not looking for casual sex, so please don't ask.