Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nice guy looking for something casual. A relationship is
possible but I'm looking for friendship first.
I don't have a great deal of money but I'm comfortable.
I don't do Burning Man or extreme sports. I enjoy reading, going to
museums, antique stores, and open to all sorts of new
I don't drink, smoke, or use drugs. I've never abused a woman. I
say this because some of my experience is that women tend to
gravitate toward guys who are harmful to them..
I've been on OKC for about a year and haven't had much luck when I
write the first message. If you write, I will definitely respond.
However, I do not need advice about my profile or what I should do
to meet women. If you're not interested in me, just pass me up. If
you want to meet a normal, ordinary guy, drop me a note and let's
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and being empathetic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people and countries seem to be so mean and cruel to one
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday night isn't typical
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't profess to be overly religious
You actually have time to meet and don't use your work or your kids
as an excuse not to get together
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.