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SFePicGuy

58 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Fe, New Mexico

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:43am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am still looking for the love of my life. Friend and lover, companion, one who can listen to my thoughts and make informed comments in return. She has a thoughtful mind of her own. She is sexy, sensual, intelligent. Nothing unusual, is it?

As I've grown older, I've become more of a sensualist, perhaps only to take advantage of the rest of my time, conscious time, while here on earth, letting nothing go to waste.

I am not an extreme sports guy, I don't climb, but I can't resist a scramble if it's not too exposed. I love hiking, skiing until I tore an ACL, XC skiing, snowshoeing, snorkeling, love warm water, but am not such a hot swimmer.

In Sept (2012), I was in Avignon; in Oct., I hiked up Wheeler Peak; in Nov, I'm photographing at O'Keefe's 'Black Place', and putting on make-up for the first time, for a DayOfTheDead party. I love being active, but I can lollygag about the house with the best. Jeez, I have to do this every month, now? So, in Dec. I snowshoed, and now in Jan., I am leading XC ski 'treks' for friends and hikers. ...And prepping for a photo show in the spring.

Well, it is a year later (June), and I am about to return to Provence et France. I will return in September/2013, House is rented for 3 months! Bon chance et bon jour!
What I’m doing with my life
used to work in environment areas, then worked w/ databases, then ceased all that and now solely photography, travel, looking for Ms right, eating out, talking, hiking, XC skiing, the outdoors
I’m really good at
photography, pondering the human condition
The first things people usually notice about me
whatever it is, it usually baffles me :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shakespeare, Molierie, Woody Allen, U2, Beethoven, Sebelius, Mahler's 5th #4; comfit du canard at Il Piatto, serious human drama, serious comedy. I liked the newer restaurant, Taberna, after a try or two... the new question is, tomorrow, will I like Bouche?! Mmm, I bet.
The six things I could never do without
physical closeness, connection to another, mangos, coffee, seeing, and -after a glass of wine, my guitar.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
photography, being in love, science, the universe, what humans are;
and, finally, why I am listed by the site as 'less spontaneous'--since I thought that I was a little too spontaneous, and that a lack of too-detailed planning was a fault!! Ayi! Yesterday, I was listed on top as more compassionate; today, it doesn't appear at all. Ahhhhh!
On a typical Friday night I am
home; with friends listening to music; and the theater; symphony, cinema
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sang in Karaoke in Taiwan!
...The most private thing I’m willing to admit... this is not a question about your most private thing, rather, it is about 'The most private thing you are willing to admit'. If you don't get that, refrain from responding, SVP :-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are bright, attractive, sexy, active, hungry for life, knowledge, touch; not an ideologue, and, have a few interests in common.