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SJE_now

42 M Venice, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am most passionate about the things that bring me happiness -

traveling and experiencing different cultures, sharing good food and drink with a few close friends,
eating fresh New England oysters and clams, chocolate, coffee, massage, acupuncture, rollerblading, feeling healthy, swimming,
just pressed olive oil, pulling baby purple carrots from the ground
canoeing down the river (I'm from Missouri)
the wines from Burgundy, the Sistine Chapel
perfectly roasted whole chicken
observing tradition, breaking routine

I am creative, fun with a tendency towards goofiness.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I did work as a chef of a restaurant on the island of Martha's Vineyard the last 5 years, serving presidents, etc.

Just moved to LA and looking at some interesting chef opportunities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going with the flow.

Leading the way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Help me with this one.
Bowlegged probably or my air of sophistication.

I'm not sure let me ask some people and get back on this one.
(checked- my sis says my blue eyes and height)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Catcher in the Rye - J.D. Sallinger
Being There - J. Kosinski
Still Life with Woodpecker - T. Robbins
Confederacy of Dunces- J.K. Toole
Cookbooks of all kinds

Movies:
Pulp Fiction- Q. Tarentino
Young Frankenstein - M. Brooks
The Jerk- C. Reiner
Donnie Darko- R. Kelly
Star Wars - G. Lucas
There Will Be Blood - P.T. Anderson

TV:
Curb Your Enthusiasm
Arrested Developement- just got into this one(via Netflix), how did this get cancelled? Funniest sh%# ever!
Colbert Report
Louie

Music:
Radiohead- esp In Rainbows
White Stripes- esp Elephant
LCD Soundsystem- makes me wanna dance
Beatles- greatest of all time
James Brown-2nd greatest
Stevie Wonder-close 3rd
Prince-tied with Stevie
David Bowie-tied with Prince

Food:
Oysters, clams, lobster, striped bass
Grilled rib-eye steak
the pig - all parts
But lately mostly eat very healthy things like oatmeal, chicken, and flax seed : (
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sun
the moon
wine
funny things
tactile sensations
and bees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why think? Do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner party at my house -
good friends + good food + good wines = good times.
-or-
Meet friends out-
restaurant, live music, bowling, hanging at friends or family's house, movie, big sport's event
-or-
Alone time -
slap da bass man, read, watch netflix, youtube
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know a lot music from musicals. My mom produced musical plays for 20 years and I would work backstage as a teen - Annie, Bye-Bye Birdie, etc. Those irksome songs are stuck in my head- for life- "the sun will come out...tomorrow!" Eeech.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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...you are one who deserves my respect, then I will r-e-s-p-e-c-t.