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52 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a normal decent guy. As soon as I wake up, I look out the window. It makes me feel good to greet the new day. I go to work, come home, read a bit, watch some TV and go to bed. On the weekends, I make sure I get some time to relax. I enjoy grabbing a beer with friends, doing something constructive and being outdoors on a sunny day. I was born in San Francisco and raised in Pacifica, right on the beach. I moved to San Jose to go to school and have remained since. The adjectives that describe best are disciplined, educated (three college degrees), gregarious, fit, thoughtful, handy, extroverted and HILARIOUS. I will make you laugh. I easily practice right over wrong. I work out regularly. I'm the guy that's going to be your life partner. Life is soooo much more enjoyable when it's shared with someone special. Don't you agree? I will treat you as my best friend and equal. We'll go through life sharing all of its ups and downs. I want to take care of you because you take care of me. There's true mutual admiration and respect. I'll think of you all day long and can't wait to see you. I suspect we'll constantly IM during work. I hope we don't get fired .:-)
I know the meaning of life; it is love.

I seek a gal that has good self-esteem. What does this mean? A woman with good self-esteem makes everyone around her feel comfortable. She is constantly smiling and will say "Good Morning" to you as you pass her in the hall. She'll tell a stranger that her "dress is nice" and wave to small children as they pass in front of her car. You'll rarely hear her say negative comments about anyone. If that's you, contact me so we can start our adventure.

Here's what a nice gal I met online wrote to me after our first date. "You are much more attractive in person than in your photos (they are not bad, the real deal is just better)".

BTW, in the end, we were not a good match. The search for you continues....

I was invited to a small house party in Los Alto Hills. It was an amazing $7.4M home. The owner and I start chatting. He's a humble older gentleman. We found out that we're both online dating. I ask Andy, "how many emails do you get a week? Andy: "about 400-500 per week". Me: "what??!! I only get four a week". Andy: "take a profile pic in front of my house".
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking for you!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems
Making you laugh
Being your pal
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
My biceps
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book = How to Win Friends and Influence Others
Movie = Twelve Angry Men and Hachi
TV = Impractical Jokers
Song = Hollies, Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress and Louis Armstrong, It's a Wonderful World
Food = Giorgio's Pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love of a great woman
Laughing until someone spits their drink out
Sunny days
The smell of a fresh clean bath towel
The commuter lane at 8:57 AM
Those few seconds right after a grueling workout
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've been on this site for a year and a half. I see the same faces over and over. I wonder, why is it so difficult to find a mate? Is there a better way?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm out with friends or watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like over-cooked mushy broccoli and slightly burnt popcorn. If you do too, email me immediately! :-)
You should message me if
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any of my profile makes you smile.