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32 M Tarzana, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:55pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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OKCupid: Hello and Welcome to OKCupid!

SJP440: Thanks! Good to be here.

OKC: What inspired you to sign up for OKC?

SJP: I'm looking for the same thing as most people on here.

OKC: Such as...

SJP: Someone to rock my world! I'm not expecting to find someone like that on OKC. Almost every one of my past relationships started in real life. For instance, my ex, who is still a good friend, had a masters degree, taught yoga, and was an instructor at a mountaineering school (that's actually where we met. I also used to be an instructor at the same school). I find that people like her typically aren't into meeting people online.

OKC: Touché. Let me ask... If you could have a dinner date with any three people from any time, fictional or non-fictional, who would they be and why?

SJP: Bettie Page, Lucille Ball and Jessica Rabbit. Bettie Page because I dig her style. Lucille Ball because I like women that can make me laugh. Jessica Rabbit because she can't help herself. She was drawn that way!

OKC: Niiiice. What's the worst lie you ever told? Did you get caught?

SJP: I can't believe I'm going to share this... I was at a dinner party at popular restaurant and I wanted to try something on the plate of the person next to me. I reached over and grabbed it, took a bite, thought it was gross and put it back on his plate unnoticed. He looks down and sees a huge bite out of his food. He thought someone in the kitchen did it and freaked the %*#! out. After 45min of yelling at the management they comp'd our entire table. Nobody to this day knows it was me =)

OKC: I don't even know what to say to that. Alllllright moving on... Would you rather be smart and ugly or dumb and beautiful?

SJP: Ummmmm Smart and Ugly. Intelligence will last a lot longer than good looks and pay more dividends. Fortunately, I am both smart and beautiful ;)

OKC: If you suddenly found yourself turned into a woman, how would you spend your day?

SJP: REALLY??? Oh wow... I would be spend the day thinking that getting drunk and passing out in Tijuana was a TERRIBLE idea. I would also amend my earlier answer to "Dumb and Beautiful"!

OKC: Have you ever had your heart broken?

SJP: Of course. I don't usually worry about it because when you put yourself in a position to have your heart broken can you find fulfillment. I don't mind the risk.

OKC: What would you consider a fun first date?

SJP: To me the whole let's get coffee or meet for a drink is cliché and boring. A fun date to me would be a beach picnic, an art show or some other fun shared adventure. I'm always taking people on adventures and out of their comfort zone. It would be nice to find someone that could reciprocate.

OKC: If you came across a genie who offered to make three of your wishes come true, what would those wishes be? Oh and don't try to lawyer me by asking for unlimited wishes. That's out of the question. You ONLY get 3!

SJP: I'd wish for 10,000 Genies. LoL All jokes aside it would probably be pretty simple things like health & good fortune to my friends and family, stop all the suffering in the world, and humanity from destroying the planet.

OKC: It was great talking to you. I hope you find what you are looking for.

SJP: Thanks.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a musician and a surfer moonlighting as an attorney. It makes more sense to say I guide people through difficult situations in their lives. I enjoy advocating for the underdog and making sure that mom-and-pop outfits are given a fighting chance in today's landscape. I also do my level best to achieve fairness and equality for those that have been denied justice.

Apart from work, I love to travel. In the last couple years I've gone mountaineering in Alaska, explored ancient ruins in the Middle East, and indulged in free-diving the Bahamas. I'm a Foodie. I'm passionate about Music, Cars, Photography, and Surfing to name a few.

I spend a fair amount of time volunteering and giving back to the community. I speak at high schools and colleges. I love sharing my knowledge and inspiring young minds.