I'm a thoughtful, loving man who seeks another for intimate and
lasting companionship. I’m passionate about art, books, theater,
movies, and music – especially classical, musical theater, and
jazz. I like to stay informed about current events and issues, and
I like to stay in good physical shape, so I work out at least five
days a week. My religious faith is important to me, although I
certainly don’t agree with all my church’s teachings; and I don't
expect you to share my beliefs. I’m blessed to have many wonderful
friends. I’m looking for an attractive, athletic man with a warm
sense of humor; candor; tenderness; patience; and a willingness to
work through the ups and downs of a monogamous relationship. We'll
share not only our interests and our friends, but also quiet times
alone together; passionate times in bed (I'm an enthusiastic bottom
who can occasionally top, if we're both in the mood); the pleasures
of conversation, kissing, reading, cooking, eating, watching a
movie or taking a walk.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a college librarian and like to spend my free time
enjoying friends, the arts, and physical exercise.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my friendliness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jonathan Strange and Mister Norrell by Rebecca Clarke;
children's books by Edward Eager and Eleanor Cameron; Commitment
and Healing: Gay Men and the Need for Romantic Love by Richard
Movies: The Wizard of Oz, An American in Paris, Parting Glances,
Singin' in the Rain
Shows: Chicago, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Arcadia, Wit, Hamlet,
Sweeney Todd, Company, and so many many more . . .
Music: Stravinsky, Beethoven, Bernstein, Copland, Cole Porter,
Gershwin, American musical theater in general
Food: my favorite four-letter word
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my desire to meet a man who will love me as much as I love him, in
a monogamous relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends for dinner, a show, a concert, or a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I drink far too much coffee and am trying to cut back!
You should message me if
you like what you read and see here, and think you'd enjoy meeting