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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:40pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm a thoughtful, loving man who seeks another for intimate and lasting companionship. I’m passionate about art, books, theater, movies, and music – especially classical, musical theater, and jazz. I like to stay informed about current events and issues, and I like to stay in good physical shape, so I work out at least five days a week. My religious faith is important to me, although I certainly don’t agree with all my church’s teachings; and I don't expect you to share my beliefs. I’m blessed to have many wonderful friends. I’m looking for an attractive, athletic man with a warm sense of humor; candor; tenderness; patience; and a willingness to work through the ups and downs of a monogamous relationship. We'll share not only our interests and our friends, but also quiet times alone together; passionate times in bed (I'm an enthusiastic bottom who can occasionally top, if we're both in the mood); the pleasures of conversation, kissing, reading, cooking, eating, watching a movie or taking a walk.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a college librarian and like to spend my free time enjoying friends, the arts, and physical exercise.
I’m really good at
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appreciating beauty.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my friendliness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jonathan Strange and Mister Norrell by Rebecca Clarke; children's books by Edward Eager and Eleanor Cameron; Commitment and Healing: Gay Men and the Need for Romantic Love by Richard Isay.
Movies: The Wizard of Oz, An American in Paris, Parting Glances, Singin' in the Rain
Shows: Chicago, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Arcadia, Wit, Hamlet, Sweeney Todd, Company, and so many many more . . .
Music: Stravinsky, Beethoven, Bernstein, Copland, Cole Porter, Gershwin, American musical theater in general
Food: my favorite four-letter word
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Male beauty
Full moons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my desire to meet a man who will love me as much as I love him, in a monogamous relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends for dinner, a show, a concert, or a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I drink far too much coffee and am trying to cut back!
You should message me if
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you like what you read and see here, and think you'd enjoy meeting me.