You are a friend foremost. We need to understand each other so I want to do the male thing (or maybe it’s just a me thing) and make lists so there is no lack of communication.
So you understand me:
• I am an intelligent male that respects and craves your intelligence. Discussion instead of argument
• We need to communicate often, with Truth at all time
• I do not do hints, subtle hint, and obvious hints…just talk and tell me what you want and need
• I will always be telling you the truth when you ask me how you look in XXXX. You are always beautiful to me
• I enjoy intimacy in all its forms from being wrapped around each other on the couch watching a TV program, to walking hand in hand along the storefronts at some seaside place. Yes my libido is above average, but only for you.
• I am a consummate professional, but will take time to have a getaway, just the two of us.
• I come from a blended family and cherish friends and family from all races, religions and sexual orientations, this is non-negotiable. My family is huge, and if you’re not used to large gatherings, you are in for a treat.
• I need you to be reciprocal with your passion. You will receive mine openly, and I need you to be very open and energetic. There is nothing better than for you to push my chair back, sit in my lap remove my glasses and kiss me. To grab and hold my hand first, to pull me into a wrap-around hug without asking because you know I want it too…always.
• I need for you to tell me when I am being silly or stubborn…I do not get angry; I love you and trust your concern.
• I am not a jealous person in the least. Love is based on trust, and yes you know I have been badly hurt in the past when that trust was broken by cheating. But you know that I continue to be trustful, because that is the only way I know how to make love work
You are my best friend and I am yours, which is the only way to make a relationship based on love happen.